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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Not sure if I'm reading to much in to this but here goes.There was a guy at work who I barely knew and we ended up going on a course together with a couple of other people from work. Since the course he emailed me frequently at work asking personal things like if I'm married (I'm not), what my current relationship status is etc... I have a boyfriend.He then left our work place and added me as a friend in facebook which I accepted and started texting me (he has my mobile number because he was the designated driver for the course and we all gave him our number incase he couldn't find where we lived to pick us up).What is bugging me a bit is that he is married with a child yet all his txts are flirty and another odd thing - he made a comment which he would only have known if he read a conversations I had on facebook with a mate. Now I know it's normal for people to read status and conversations but this conversation was ages ago and he would have had to scroll down my entire profile to have read it.I'm not giving this guy any encouragement - I don't want to make things awkward by telling him to back off incase I miscontrued his intentions and he is friends with some guys at work so I need to keep this to myself.What do u guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You need to not be friendly to this guy, like you said he's married and has a baby.
Think about how you would feel when one day you have a husband and a baby with him, and hes flirting with someone else.
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reader, BluntLove  +, writes (6 August 2010):
Ignore. Be polite but don't answer back texts and if he makes a comment on your facebook, say something "funny" like "you're such a weirdo, are you stalking me or something" in a joking way and laugh about it. It'll make him see that you don't think it's ok. And if he continues just don't ever answer him and he'll eventually get the point.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 August 2010):
I'm thinking this married man isn't telling his wife what he's up to. I'm thinking that he might be after using you whilst keeping his wife. I'm thinking that you shouldn't be in contact with him as much.
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