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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Girlfriend spends to much time with this other guy. It seems to be non-sexual from her side but should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for five years. In the last couple of years she has become friends with a single man. It is more than obvious to me that he is attracted to her. She always tells me that they are just friends and she in not ...

Have I over reacted or were they necking while smoking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - my husband and another couple had been going out for about a year on a weekend after us having got back together after separating for a couple of year before that, then a third couple were introduced to us who we got on well with and who joined the ...

Confusion lead me to look at her phone while she was sleeping.....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years. About a year ago we started fighting a lot. Since then we have had sex only six times and we havn't had sex at all in months. She doesn't even want to kiss me or cuddle with me when we ...

I love her and it hurts me to listen to her anymore talk about the man who treats her so bady!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl for 17 years. I've seen her in and out of many relationships. I don't think she's ever been single. She always felt 'complete' as long as she was in a relationship regardless of how unhappy she was. I always ...

I'm confused, is he playing head games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (?) - My boyfriend(30) and I(25) have been together for almost a year now. We have been living together for the past 7 months. He seperated from his wife over a year ago and has just finalized his divorce at the beginning of summer. Yay! However, I have ...

Should I text this other woman, not to confront her, but to introduce myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Mods Note...OP's own title: Hi. I've been with my BF *Jack* for 6 years. I admit, I had trust issues before our relationship started, thanks to my ex. But I've never had anything to worry about. So 6 months ago, our relationship started to get ...

Porn versus love

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...

My girlfriend has double standards about oral sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Dear all my girlfriends says that me tasting her cum is ok and should be a pleasure but her tasting my is disgusting and degrading to women Help please...

My former friend is causing problems in our relationship, how should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - This is complicated. The guy I love is amazing and wonderful. But since we've had issues with a ex-friend of mine harassing me on the internet through him,things between us have gotten complicated. He doesn't blame me but feels upset all the same. ...

We had a fight and now we have not spoken for 3 weeks! Is there anything I can do or should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i dated a guy for six years. we had a fight. i went to apologize and he did not accept it. he always had a way of making me feel like i was not good enough for him. i have not talked to him for three weeks and he has made no attempt to ...

Confusing ex-gf situation...what is she doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Hi This girl, who happens to be an ex, is keen to join my band. But she missed our first rehearsal, saying there was no time specified and she couldn't make it as she'd made other plans. I was annoyed at the time, but disn't bother too much...

My aunt and I lived like we were married but then she married someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Im 19 yers old and i've become a part of an incest with my aunt (age:24) it was all started by me when i was 16! We used to sleep in my room in different bed !! One night i kissed her when she was sleeping! One night it all happend, but she...

He broke up with me after our first ever drama as a couple! I am really hurt and disappointed right now....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend lost feelings for me after we had our first drama as a couple. He thought I wanted to break up with him but it wasn't like that. He blames it on that. I don't think it was such a big deal. I expect all couples to fight and then ...

My boyfriend thinks sex is dirty and gross!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Just wondering what everyone thinks of this and how you may go about dealing with this. I have tried discussing this nicely with my fiance' but he says he doesn't think there is a problem. But I am concerned there is an underlying problem. He thinks ...

I do not want to be a doormat but at the same time I can't walk out on her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I have been in love with a woman, she knows it as well and has asked me for time to commit. We hang out together a lot and spend a lot of time together. She has had some past issues with relationships and I understand her need for time to decide. ...

Should I give my ex the money she is asking for even though she hardly ever paid anything and let me pay for most things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. Me and my girlfriend split up about 7 months ago. We have both found it really hard and she is the one that walked away from me without fighting. When we were together, we bought a flat together. It was solely in my name as i was the ...

Conflicted feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Recently I've been having conflicting feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend of a year and a half. I love him, he's kind and caring and makes me laugh, and a lot of the time everything seems fine, like it always has been: we'll go ...

Am I really such a difficult and overcomplicated person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Dear Aunts, I beg you to read my post (which unfortunately I could not find other way of making it short as feel all details are important). I will appreciate your advice to enable me see the better picture out the situation that me and girlfriend ...

Am I losing interest in my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - OK my boyfriend and I have been together for around six months now. We are both from different countries and met as exchange students. Now we are back in our own countries and have been apart for two months and will see each other next in Oct. ...

Am I too young to be in such a serious relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since I just turned thirteen. We have a very passionate relationship most of the time. He gets extremely jealous of male friends or other male attention even though he's cheated on me 7 times. Do you think I am ...

Is this website my fiance is using just a porn site or is it a chat site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm marrying my man on August 30th this year.... I've noticed in his internet history (recent) that he uses 'Stream Mate' which is live porn, and wondered if anyone can tell me if this is a chat place, or can it be used solely to watch? I'm n...

My boyfriend wants an open relationship! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Apologies if this is too long! So... heres my story. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a month. and I'm not going to lie, it has been a heck of a roller coaster. I guess I'm clutching at straws in this relationship because ...

I like him but he has a child, should I get involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I'm so upset. And I knew something was wrong. It was like this guy was perfect, but too good to be true. So, hopefully I'm moving on with my life and trying to put the past behind me, well atleast my ex. So I met this guy and we've been talking. We ...

I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...

She always rejects me for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - my girlfriend dont seem to be interested in having sex with me anymore she will hardly talk to me about it and when we do she make me feel as tho im just using her for sex. fair enough she is a mum and she is with the baby all day. but i do 12 hours ...

We have run out of things to talk about and now it feels like he doesn't love me like he did before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Ok to begin i met a guy last June 7,2010 and he is so sweet very loving and thoughtful. At that time i feel in love with him. after 5 days he sent me a Love card and small beanie bear and he became my boyfriend we chat and talked a lot everyday. ...

He likes me, I like him, but he doesn't want a relationship, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My best male friend and i have abit of a past, on and off throughout our entire 'friendship' we've battled back and forth between friends and more. Multiple times we have expressed we have feelings for one another, but in the almost 3 years w...

What's wrong with my new boyfriend? Is it over already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I moved to a new country and I met a guy 2 months ago. This guy is also from another country (not a local but has been living here for 3 years). During these past 2 months, we spent a lot of time together, he introduced me to some of his friends, ...

I am in a committed relationship but two other guys, including my boyfriend's friend are hitting on me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - i am in a comitted long distance relationship since one year and one month...i have two problems and don't know how to tackle it.its going to be long so anybody who is patient can go through this.thanks in advance:-) i really love my bf and even he ...

Why is she begging for me to be in her life when she is still with my ex friend who she dumped me for?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Well i have a major problem involving my ex girlfriend. Well a few months back my ex fell for some tricks my ex best friend pulled to steal her away from me. She had been friends with him nearly as long as i had known him and she did not believe ...

I feel we have been through too much together to end this for good, but she claims she wants me to leave her alone and does not want to get married....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - i'm now 29 years old. I had been in a sexual relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years (2005-2008). In fact, we lived together for a year. We loved each other much before. However, she became very very weak during our live-in. we did have one ...

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now, but i have some concerns! I feel like she takes advantage of me. I do so much for her thats its ridiculous. When were togather in public or just hanging out she rather spend my money ...

My fiance lied to me about going out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - okay, so i am engaged to a wonderful guy. We have been together for almost 4 years, and engaged for a little over a year. We are not only soulmates, but we are also best friends. He has been getting closer to this guy, and they are becoming pretty ...

Low male libido...not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I'm 41 and with a highly sexed woman who's 40. We've been together about a year, and I have to say it has been a roller coaster. I love sex, but I am not used to it every day, let alone 3-4 times. Mentally, yes, but physically it takes me at ...

Will a Catholic guy marry a non-Catholic? And how can I find out what his family really think about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hey Guys, I searched a lot but some information based on they can some are not.. Does Catholic guy marry someone who is non catholic?At first I wanted ask this question before I ask to my bf Here is the situation my bf is Spanish Catholic but the...

He loves me but says horrible things when angry with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My bf says he loves me and i feel that he does but when he gets angry at me he says a lot of hurtful things like "i found a better girl than you or i wish i would have never met you,your just a typical girl,i should of just used you", things like ...

B/f was in a car accident and now he hardly ever contacts me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, he has always been quite a distant guy, and i dont get to see him much coz of his work schedule. However recently he was in a car accident and has been incredibly distant ever since, he hasnt ...

In a bind and need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is currently in prison and gets released next week. He has a lot of paranoia about me cheating on him which I would never ever do. I love this guy. Anyways a few days ago I put myself into a really crappy situation that I feel really g...