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writes:okay you need to know my story.. this is how it starts kay. well im voted as the most popular at my school,and other stuff and everyones loves me.. but something went wrong.. i told my best friend ever im maybe moving so shes comes over and my step dad tells her we are not and i wasnt there to tell her im moving to my grandma's so she hates meh prob. wont talkto me. and my well ex bf now prob. hates me too. cuz i made a new myspace with no boys and gave him my e-mail well i added my step cousin and didnt tell him it was my cousin.. and he deleted me. and i cant get a hold of him and he might be moving far away! :( (hes my first love i was going to lose myself to him homecoming night before his big game) and now he wants to move cuz he can live his dreams.. i want him to be happy but i love him.. he won't even talk to me now. my best friend hates him. omg what do i do??? plz help me!! im begging :(
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reader, The B man +, writes (6 August 2010):
 I agree with chigirl and I would like to add that things will get better for you. Love is the most painfull thing in the world, and I now what your going through. for years I would have done anything for the girl I loved and when she left the other month ago I was devestated, but I have gotten better since. You will get better too and become wiser as a result. if you need to talk to anyone you can always message me, im always willing to help.I hope I helped:)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 I think it was a good thing your didnt have sex with your ex boyfriend because now you see what he was really worth. Your friend as well. I am afraid they were both superficial and not for real. A real boyfriend who was sincere and cared about you wouldn't just ditch you like that. A real friend wouldn't have either. I say forget about your ex boyfriend. If he can't trust you, then he doesn't deserve you begging for him. Now you know why you need to be in a stabile serious relationship before you have sex.. and choose carefully who you have sex with, because many times you don't really know the person at all. And before you know it he can turn his back on you. Find a new boyfriend who cares about you and not just ditches you and "deletes" you without talking about things first.
As for your friend, how good of a friend is she if she ignores you over something like this? A misunderstanding?
But, none of them "hates" you. This thing will blow over soon.
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reader, The B man +, writes (5 August 2010):
Well, what you'll need to do now is confront your bf face-to-face and tell him everything about whats going on in your life right now along with your feelings. DO NOT 'lose' YOURSELF TO HIM OR ANYBODY FOR THAT MATTER, your to young. The thing is, school relationships are really based more on drama then it is when your older. I understand things are really hard right now, this girl I loved for 4 years just moved away and it hurts alot but I think of this as a chance to grow for the future.
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