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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I move on or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I was getting to know this guy..he'd ring me 3times a day..we were meant to meet up but i told him i couldn't come cos i had to go to work. he sounded disappointed and said that why he doesn't trust no one cos people always let you down. i t...

Why does she want to speak to me now? Should I just ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - i was really good friends B with a girl a year back. i introduced my very close friend S to B and they became really tight. S didn't wana hang with me anymore. she stopped calling me, i was always the one making the first move. she is always wi...

Husband looks at younger women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a big problem. My husband and I have a great marriage, but this is now about 8 years that he keeps looking at younger beautiful women. If it's once, it doesn't bother me. However, what he does is he looks at one particular woman in...

Why did they start laughing when I walked in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - hey i had a question and i hope you guys can help me out the question is if your bf and your mother are having a coversation about you buts it bad but when yu appear all they do is look and laugh what does that tell you ...

He said if I sleep with him he will trust me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for the past year and a bit. I have known him for a total of 9 years. We have been in and out of touch over our friendship. About 2-3 years ago we become closer and I hooked up with a good friend of his ...

What does it mean when one person hates you one minute then loves you the next?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - What does it mean when someone is so mean to you one minute and then loves you and wants to see you the next? This same person always seems to come in and out of my life...

I feel alot less special

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am in relation with a man for the last 3.5 years.everything is going well,we are having a distant relationship!we are tight with each other and we are going to get married in 3 years!we are very much confident about each other and we communicate ...

I need some reassurance, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Im so scared of losing my partner! He is so perfect and I love him lots but everyday I think what if its the last day I'm with him what if he leaves. He is the most perfect man on earth, he is loyal , loving and makes me feel special and I do not ...

Is it normal to feel this way in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hi.. I've been with my guy for almost 4 months already... the problem is that I just felt a little tired with him but I don't want to split up with him because I love him so much and I know he loves me too.. What should I do? or it's just normal to ...

My jobless, non motivated fiance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am a 20 year old mother of a 2 year old. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 5 years now, he is the father of my son. We love each other dearly but for 3 years this man has been jobless. He's had two jobs total. They only lasted a...

How do I play it when he gets in contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Im pretty angry right now... my bf has been away on business and gt back last night... hes not bothered to contact me last I heard from him was monday. This is not unusual behaviour from him he does it quite often i just dont think he thinks i...

Our differences are making it hard for me to move forward wth him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 4months. We met online and been taking things slow- we are at the stage where we are getting to know each other, but I am finding this hard as I don't know where its headed. I know we have strong ...

Shocked by threesome suggestion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together for 2 ½ years and have a very happy and loving relationship. We have talked about threesomes before and came to an agreement that if were to have a bloke then he would choose who and when, and if it was female then ...

We are trying to give it another go but now I don't know if I feel the same anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - This is completely new to me so I really hope someone can help. I have been with my boyfriend for the last seven years. We got together very young and had only ever been intimate with each other. We moved in together over a year ago and I really ...

I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...

My husband wont explain about these unusual phone calls and is trying to turn the argument around on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - While paying our phone bill I noticed some calls at odd times (2:30, 5:00 am) from a weekend my husband was away with the boys. The calls were to and from the friends he was supposedly with. He previously told me they went out, got home around 2:30, ...

I need to know, does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

He made so many promises then he left me! How do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 2 months thats going through a divorce, everything went great he told me that he sees a long and happy life with me.three weeks ago we went to durban so i can meet his brother, we got back on the sunday and the friday he ...

Slept with someone while we were on a break; is it worth telling him when the relationship is so rocky already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hello everybody. I'm in a bit of a pickle at the moment. This may also be a bit long but I'll try to keep it as simple as I can, but I think I should give some back story. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 18 months now and t...

Is it worth it to try to continue this relationship, and if I do, how can I convince him to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I need to do some serious soul searching. My problem is very complicated. My questions would be, is it worth it to try to continue this relationship, and if I do, how can I convince him to move out? Still stuck on the same problem unfortunately. M...

Better to have loved and lost?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Three years ago I fell totally completely in love with this boy. We dated for about 8 months but broke it off because there was a 30 minute distance between us. He dated another girl for about 2 years who broke his heart. but all through these past ...

How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - ok i'm just about the most self contious person in the world and i hate it! i try to talk to people but i never feel better. my boyfriend is AMAZING and so suportive but i just feel like i'm not good enough. before we started dating, i was with a ...

My boyfriend didnt stand up for me and told me it was my fault!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I don't know if I should be upset with my boyfriend. He was texting a girl we both know so I thought I would text her to say sorry for being upset with her before and she told me that I had problems and that my boyfriend didnt love me because I was ...

I am obsessed with a guy I briefly dated a year ago...how do I stop this???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I am obsessed with this guy I briefly dated and it's tearing me apart mentally!!! I want it to stop. A year ago I met him online and I totally fell for him. He's in the military and soon after we met he had to leave on deployment. He was away for ...

Is it wrong to want my new man to lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I met a guy online. We had never met but had mutual friends. He ended up helping me through a hard time. Then we met up. The thing is he is very overweight and I find it really off- putting. I do still love many things about him, but don't know ...

My girlfriends best friend does not know about us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has not told her best friend who is a male about me and im suspicious. I feel like any self respecting gf of bf would be. I tried to talk to her nicely about, yet she got defensive on me. I have no problem with her having a best friend ...

I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...

When he's not willing to talk about whatever is bugging him and just sits there being cranky, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for some time now and we love each other very much. Our relationship is great! We don't fight, and we make each other happy :) First some background information: My boyfriend's personality is hard ...

I'd leave but I don't want to hurt the kids..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - What is the impact of a spouse hearing these words: "I'd leave but I don't want to hurt the kids"? Having been recently accused of knowing that I don't love my spouse, I'm trying to reconcile that statement with the knowledge that she'd leave but ...

My boyfriend is mad at me because we can't have sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - He and I have been together for almost 3 years. This is not the first time this happens. I can't go to his house and he can't come to mine. We have to pay for hotel rooms to be alone together. I am a college student so I am not working right now. He ...

Sick of being disappointed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys.. Okay, I'm sorry - this is going to be a little rant type thing. I am SO sick of him (my boyfriend) making plans with me, and then making other plans that are apparently "more important". I also hate that whenever I ask him to hang out,...

Left alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I just got my heart broken cause my ex wanted to be with his female friend and i thought he really love like he say! sometimes i feel good and sometimes i feel bad like its my fault ! when we was together he denied it! when i tryin to get back with ...

I don't know if I made the right decision!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have have been together for nearly a year, the other night something happen that scared me. We were lying in bed and I accidentally hit him in his, er, area, it was a complete accident and I apologized straight away, but he turned ...