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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We both love each other but are with others, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - me and this boy,he is one year older, were going out for about 2-3months. everyone knew we were meant to be, but rumors got to me, and my trust in him started to fade, so we ended it. then he realised how much he loved me and how much he wanted me ...

She broke up with me and refused to give me a clear answer.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me and refused to speak to me in person or even give me a logical reason behind her decision. We are both in our late 30's and have had many relationships before this one. When I met my ex, she was divorced for ove...

I'm now no better than my cheating husband. I need your help! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what category this comes under, to say my life feels like a mess right now, would be an understatement. I'm desperate for advice or words of wisdom. Have been married fifteen years now and it all started about two years ago, when ...

After our first big fight, is she still willing to work with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I had our first big fight last Friday, now I feel as though there's no comming back. Here's the situation; we've been dating for about 18 months and living together just over a year. She's currently 30 weeks pregnant and unt...

Age gap concerns.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl currently dating a 25 year old guy. I'm still studying and living with my parents and he is already working, has his own home, touring in a band overseas and interstate. I don't drink or do drugs but he drinks and smokes ...

He cheated... whats best for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Ive dated this man for 19 months now. When we first started dating, after a month I found out that he was sneaking around with a married woman twenty years younger than him. It didnt bother me too much because I did just meet him and wasnt looking ...

I just wish I knew where all this was going... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - So i met this guy in my internship, and I felt the chemistry as soon as we met. He is really nice to everyone, so I can't tell if he is "especially nice" to me. All interns usually go to lunch together, but we happen to have a sweet-tooth, so we ge...

Am I supposed to believe her about the father of this child? It doesn't help that I'm deployed and away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Ok well here we go. i joined the army back in may of last year. my wife left me for another man then. she aid she didnt want that kind f life. well she ended up getting prgo from this guy right after i left. well when i was about done with basic we ...

He never told me he had girlfriend! How do I act when I see him at work next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I am feeling like a prized idiot and I need some helpful advice. This is quite long, sorry. Everyone knows you should never get involved with someone at work but my head was tunred by this guy I work with, he is the first guy ever that I have l...

Would you consider her a slut?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - Would you consider her a slut? She has slept with 6 different guys Not including me..So Thats 7... Fron the age of 15- to almost 18 in a few months. One was a serious relationship but cheated on him with two different people includding a si...

Can a leopard change his spots?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I wonder if anyone could give me a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now, and have just found out for the 4th time that he has been texting an other women. The last incident happened about 3 months ago and this time ...

I don't want to wait for him, but I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hey, needing a lil advice on this please. Ok a little while ago i asked wether telling my ex i still loved him was a good idea. I didnt tell him in the end, but he told me he was sure he did, but didnt wanna ask me back out incase he was wrong....

What should I do about this very troubled marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hi, Sorry this is very long but I want you to know about everything. I have used fake names. I am hurting, my husband Cody and I have split up, it will be 3 weeks on Sunday. I am not eating, and if I do, I puke it up. I drink so I forget him. We h...

How do I tell him that I'm sorry for being a snooping jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Snooping is wrong! Well, dear aunts and uncles I made a STUPID move by looking on my man's cell phone, no excuse really but I did it only because he's been acting aloof so to speak for a few weeks and I couldn;t understand why. Even after talking ...

How can I stay with my parents without fighting with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Please help! Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.But some reason we have to break up.I moved with him in his country.I used to work before but all the money I had I give him to buy cars and rent.I have no money right now.So,Now we have to ...

I never had a chance to explain why I blocked him! How do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (?) - hello, I'm currently living abroad wih my boyfriend of two years but we plan on going home the end of next year. there was this guy, we'll call him Jim, that i was really good friends with back home who my boyrfiend asked me not to speak to...

Does he just need some space to get his head together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - hi,well i'm new here but have started seeing someone in the past 3 months,we both have been badly hurt in the past,neither one of us have been in a realationship in almost 2 years,his ex cheated on him and plays mind games with him regarding his ...

Hate spending time with boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I'm really confused I've been alone for so long,and have been so unhappy.I finally meet a really great guy,and its all going wrong. At first when I thought he didnt like me, i found him really attractive. We started seeing each other as just ...

B/f is always flirting so I accepted another man's phone number and now I feel guilty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Ok here it goes, I have recently got a number from a guy that comes through my store. I would really like to get to know him. But when I accepted his number I felt guilty right afterwards because I do have a b/f. Here's the thing My b/f ...

Madly in love and she just got engaged to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - hi everyone this girl who i'm madly in love with has just got engaged. I think about her all of the time and everything that i see reminds me of her. i would like to tell her how i feel but i know that if i do it will just be complicated betw...

He says there is someone else but then says he's lying about it???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Ive been with my bf for 9mths now, and we are experiencing some difficulties. We got into an argument last week which made me upset, so Ive been trying to communicate all week with him about sorting out the arguement. He says he is busy due to ...

Are we together for the right reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - we have been together for just over 3yrs now, and we have a 14 month old son. since we found out i was pregnant he changed, i went through the pregnancy alone. since birth, he doesn't offer to help with our son or when i'm ill he don't help me, and ...

If he was going to feel something for me wouldn't he have by now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I am going crazy. Just had to go to Dr. yesterday and got Rx for Xanax. I have lost 13 pounds in the last two weeks. This is why: I met a guy who really felt like my soul mate. We met July 31 and have gone out every Fri and Sat since then. The ...

Is there any help for self inflicted heartache?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - How can I get over the girl I love? I met the perfect girl about 10 years ago at the age of 12 and instantly I was in love. Even though we were friendly and I knew she liked me, throughout the next few years I never once asked her out as I was extr...

I felt neglected, I cheated, confessed, and now b/f doesn't know if we can get back what we had

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a while now, and i love him. He will have a baby in less then a month with a women that i know he does not want to be with. He has been staying over at her place for around 3 weeks, and i never get any calls from him or ...

Rough sex is killing our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together in a very close and loving relationship for over 6 years - I am 47 and he is 42. We have a lovely time with ordinary physical affection on a daily basis, lots of hugs, kisses, touches, playing around and fun. He ...

My husband always has an attitude and I've had enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - My husband always have an attitude when he be around me. And when I ask him a question he act like it hurts him to answer me.I'm tired of him because he show me no love. What do u think....

She's upset but still talking to me what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (M) - So here's the thing. When you make your girlfriend or wife mad, and even after you've talked it out, she still is upset, what's the best way to handle that situation? Being affectionate or lovey is obviously not the way to go, and I know that sayi...

Does it mean he likes me when he acts jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 October 2009 (F) - Hello Before I dated a guy once and that was all. We did not meet again. Now I am dating the same guy and today we went out for together (this is our second date) and he asked me some questions like when was your last boyfriend, and how long did...