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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My abusive parents won't let me be with the one I love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about a year ago. At first, I didn't think it was anything. I had not really had a real boyfriend before that, and I wasn't expecting it to last very long. I'll call him mr. A Well, after two amazing dates, I was rea...

What did I do wrong and how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now, and everything is going great. She is 26 I am 22. She has a kid and works 2 jobs. Its hard to get time for us to go out so we spend most times at her house just hanging out. We are no...

My boyfriend has women at the house while I work. Is he leading a double life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has women over my house (where we live) during the day when I am at work. He doesn't work. He says he should be able to have over the house who ever he wants, that I should not dictate who he can and who he cannot see. The girls have ...

I can't shake these feelings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for two and a half years. My BF has a kid. I don't want to be around her nor do I want him to bring her to my house. It really hurts him and I know it. I know what I'm saying is wrong but I can't shake my feelings about ...

How do I cope with our libido difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and we've never had a particularly rampant sex life. By all means, we both enjoy showing each other how much we love each other physically, but in the past few months it's been on the ...

Should I try to bury the hatchet and send my daughter a card for her 21st???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My daughter's birthday is coming up Monday October 26. She will be 28 years old and she and I don't talk, her decision, not mine. She moved out June 08 and only speaks to my sister. I'm torn whether to send her a birthday card or just ignore it. ...

Crossdressing husband worries.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Several years ago my husband/bf said to me he liked to crossdress and at first I was okay with it because I thought it was like some sort of sex game between us until I discovered he started secretly taking some of the clothing to his apartment and ...

How do I convince my friend that he shouldnt take this girl back as she is holding him back from finding the girl he deserves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Well, i have a friend who met this girl about a year ago. When he met her she had a boyfriend but he was only trying to be her friend at first but then he started liking her. They ended up getting really close and the girl started liking him as ...

My ex still has a hold over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - The first time I posted, my now EX was really distant and pulling away (shes 30, I'm 28). The second time I posted she ended it by stating she didnt feel like she was the type of person who could be in relationship because of some issues in her ...

Do I just have a crush? Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I'm so confused, I've been with my bf for nearly 2 years like just head over heels for him. It's my first relationship but it felt like I would be with him forever. Just recently I met a guy who for some reason I find interesting. Jus...

She's hit me with a bombshell. Do I just need to give her some space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hi. My Girlfriend of almost 6 years has hit me with a bombshell, she says she doesnt feel as though she loves me in that way any more, I love her more than I can explain, she's my world, I have never done anything to push her away and she openly ...

Its only day 2 of our 'break' and I already cant cope! I feel so sad and confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I been with my bf for 5 1/2 yrs. I am now presently 22 and he is 23. We have had a strong solid relationship for the most part. No one ever cheated or nothing it was good. But we recently decided to take a break. this is day 2! and i been crying off ...

We havent spoke in nearly a month, does this mean its over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am in a long term relationship. However I got mad with him, and I sent him a message saying that he might one day not hear from me again. He never replied my text. Its now close to a month since I last heard from him. Does this mean its over? I ...

Can someone impartial tell me whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I had been together for 7 years, but broke up about 4 months ago. We have since been seeing different people. He contacted me about 3 weeks ago, and we did some talking about getting back together. He said some very important things about ...

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that alt...

Will this LDR work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I'm having a terrible time in my LDR. I "met" a woman a few months ago through on online dating service. When she started her account and up until about two weeks before we contacted, she lived only 40 miles from me. After moving (again, a couple of ...

My girlfriend's parents absolutely HATE me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Well, my girlfriends parents absolutely HATE me. Over the summer they even managed to break us up. But when school started we got back together again. Things were great until her parents found out a few days ago. They took away her phone and her ...

Why do I change so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Even when I try to avoid it, my entire life prior to a relationship feels like it gets erased-my relationships with friends and family change so much. It seems I change after the breakup now, which is an improvement as I used to change during the ...

When should I break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have been in a 5-year relationship with my current girlfriend. However, our relationship has ultimately deteriorated, and she has developed erratic behavior (she has stalked me once, she now throws tantrums in public, she has severe mood swings, ...

Should I be more patient? Or is it over for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - recently, about nine months ago, i met this truly amazing guy in school. i was attracted to him in class immediately before we even spoke to each other, having a crush on him already, and i knew i had to get to know him. i was so nervous that i ...

I am acting like my parents! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - HI, everybody. I am studying in a different country from where my parents live. My parents never really have a peaceful relationship. They argue almost all the time for everything. I didn't really understand why do they argue and fight. What does ...