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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...

He's playing with my head. How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Once i started back to the life ,back on the track , he got back to me .....why ? i am not going to finish from this story or what ? he broke my heart 3 months ago , he said awful things about me, trashed my reputation he was the happiest...

My ex is a jerk but I still want him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - My ex is a jerk but I sitll want him. Last night he took me to a pub, because he was meeting a guy over there. I told him he could go alone, 'cause I wasn't in the mood for going out. But he begged, so we went. It was all ok, but suddenly he ...

Can anyone help sort out my marriage problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - well!!! hi ... i hurt my wife feelings and i told her we must stop then i got regret , i feel kind of lost i was study in university and i got out of university cant continue anymore and i didnt told anybody till now i feel a shame of my self , iam ...

He only wants me when he can't have me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i met a guy about a year ago and he sent me lots of txt messages, tellin me he was in love with me etc, after a couple of months i really got to like him so we went out a few times and then had a month long intense relationship seeing each other ...

Should I disclose why intimacy scares me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - ok, so my question is about being in a successful relationship. i'll admit that ya i'm a virgn and ya i tended to avoid relationships, but the thing is i've had a pretty messed up past. i was abused physically and emotionally and there are some ...

Why do I feel a sense of rejection with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hi here's my problem -- I feel sick and upset even thinking about the fact that other men have slept with my girlfriend. She is 18 and I am 20. I fell deeply in love with her the day that I met her two years ago, but it took her 5 months to feel t...

I consistently dawged this woman out and I need to make amends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a huge issue that I created for myself. FOur years ago I meet the woman of my dreams but at the time I didnt realize it. I didnt realize it until recently. She did everything in her power to please me and because I was so bitter of...

He must think I'm so stupid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I dont know if i am over reacting but, recently i found on my boyfriends laptop a number of folders of girls pictures which must equal to over 300 pictures of half naked girls etc including my best friends! But he said sorry and that he forgot i...

Why has she gone cold on me suddenly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I met a girl online and we talked for two days and REALLY hit it off, like the best i have initially ever gotten along with a girl we chatted things up and thursday morning i texted her same continued but i had school and she had work so i finished ...

Should I just break up with my boyfriend and live my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now. We have a good relationship, but I'm no longer sure about if we should be together. The reasons why I doubt the relationship is that he can be really aggressive and (in my opinion) selfish and ...

Should I accept my boyfriend's continued friendship with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is currently friends with his ex. However, they were NOT friends when we started dating. They dated for 2 or so years, and that was a couple years ago. But when our relationship really started to advance, a few months in, she ...

Feelings hurt...what's next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 2years and known him for 3-4, recently he did something that really hurt my feelings to the point that I doubted if I wanted to stay together. I love my partner and realize that he did not hurt my feelings ...

My obsession of my b/f's ex has turned into depression, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

31 October 2009 (?) - I am glad I have found this site.I have been obsessed with my bf's ex ever since we first started going out. We have been together 10 months now and he moved in with me quickly.I love him very much.This week I have deleted my facebook to stop myself ...

I want her but she doesn't even have feelings for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Hello, I am 16, and I am in love with one of my close friends. we live about an hour apart by public transportation, and we've only seen each other once. We met about 5 months ago, and she has been hurting me unintentionally for many months now. ...

How can I make her like me again...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I think I'm in love with this girl... problem is, she has a boyfriend. We dated about two months ago, but we broke up... until' she got together with him, we just remained good friends. I told her, tonight, that I was planning on asking her to get ...

Help! I left a 31-year relationship with a woman I could 100% trust, for a relationship that I don't think I can ever trust!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - hi all this is a long one so here we go,i meet this girl about 16 months ago by the way im 48 shes 45 around the same time i left my wife now ex-my girlfriend isn't exactly the honest type found out she was seeing here old boyfriend behind my back ...

Is he being clingy or am I just not used to a guy like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Im loosing patience with my guy of 6 months. I was the one head over heels for him and had to step back cuz he was not ready. well now he is ready, askin me to move in for the last 3 months and i dont the feel the same as i did. He calls me allot...

What do you class as cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - OK, I wanted the aunts views on this.... What would you class as cheating?.... naughty phonecalls, texts, emails, pictures, thinking about someone else, a kiss, or full sexual contact?... My reason for asking is that I checked my bf's emails o...

Should I tell him what happened? I'm leaning towards no.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and I broke up over a month ago and at first we were still sleeping together until I told him it would end up hurting me and we needed to stop. He had been really mean and unappreciative of me during the relationship and he ...

What can I do? I'm desperate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i want to make my boyfriend miss me more or as much as i miss him. i also want him to call me more and appreciate that he has a rare girl and he needs to do what it takes to hold on to her. im showing him all that, just not getting it back. please ...

I seem to have no ambition to do anything...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - hey, lately i have been feeling unloved by my boyfriend of 5 years, i know he loves me but sometimes im just not sure. and i have gotten laid off work so im home a lot i never feel like doing anything, its a huge chore to leave the house, i have ...