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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel like dumping her as she finds him attractive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - i recently asked my girlfreind if She would ever have sex with this guy, i know she thinks is good looking, although she told me she is not intrested in anybody but me. She told me she doesnt just sleep with anyone, the fact she has only spoken t...

Is it going to take forever for him to share himself with me on a more intimate level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I will try to be breif. Currently going out with a man who I really like in every way after a year of being friends but is wanting to take things very slowly (which is great) and means that he must like me a lot. However; he wants a lot of fem...

I'm about to be bankrupt and homeless due to him. Should I take something from him? And tell people what's happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Hello Have a question I urgently need answering. I am at the end of a pretty terrible 11 year relationship with a guy. He is goodlooking, very talented, intelligent, and can be amusing. He also had a really bad childhood where he got abandone...

Is he hiding from me? Or did he find someone new? I'm so clueless and lost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I am recently desperate in seeking straight and honest advice and I feel this is the right place for me. Kindly bear with me as I’m new with this stuff. I'm in a relationship for 7 months now, we started as collegues then we became friends and ...

No matter what he does, I always come running back for more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I have a problem. My problem is letting go of the past. Especially one person in particular - my ex boyfriend. No matter what he does, I always come running back for more. He can chew me up, and spit me out, and I can't walk away. So my question is, ...

Have I forever lost the love of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - on friday nite i went to a friends house party where there was drinking involved. i was drinking and enjoying myself waiting for my boyfriend of 3 years to stop by and pick me up so that we could go home and have passionate sex. when he showed up he ...

Escort girlfriend and sleepless nights, Part 2.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hello, I posted a question for advice some time ago which you can read here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/escort-girlfriend-true-love-and-sleepless-nights-help.html As pathetic as it may seem I am not yet free of the situation. I was won...

Got drunk, kissed a guy, and hit my ex. How do I apologize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Dear all, I made a stupid mistake over the weekend that I'm being punished for now. I've been split up from my boyfriend since July and all in all it was a amicable split and we've tried to stay friends although there's been some problems. On ...

I think he should have married me despite his mother's objections!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 20+ years with my boyfriend. He is my best friend as well. It is positive in many ways, and that has been a strong glue for keeping us together. We laugh, talk, finish each others sentences. Time flies. We just ...

We can't make this marriage work ever since I took his advice and slept with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 6 yrs and we have been together for 14 yrs..my husband and I have always had relationship problems..he always lies to me and he is verbally semi phyiscal abusive and since we started dating he always wanted me to sleep with ...

Is raising my voice to him a legitimate reason for his physical attacks on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - After being verbally beaten down - and occasionally physically attacked - I have nothing left except for a hollow-feeling body. After one year of being accused of being a wh*re, a liar, and a cheater I am, I finally started to fight back and t...

Is she really worried about things or just not turned on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is currently experiencing pains in her arms and legs. We still don't know the origin. She has not appeared interested in sex in the past few months. I wonder if these are connected, because there are other factors in our life, like my ...

What am I going to do all weekend while he's having a bachelor party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - hello all i dont know what to do well you see getting married in 2weeks and hubby us having a weekend getaway batchelors party. and i dont like the idea of having strippers ect.. dancing naked and entertaining him. i dont know if i want party and...

Has this man got narcissistic traits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Please i really need some help here to understand this man. I'm beginning to think he has Narcissistic traits but i'm not sure. i have been in a relationship with him for 8yrs,the trouble is he never says I love you or shows a lot of affectio...

He said she was only a fling yet I found emails saying he wanted to marry her, how do I know that I'm not just another fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a really long one but Im DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... and we've been together for over 3 and a half yrs now....and its always been in a ...

Am I being too serious too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I have started seeing this guy only recently (2 mths) but feel that I am falling for him. We have recently had a couple of conversations which have gone along the lines of him telling me that he thinks I am into the relationship much more ...

He hit rock bottom after we split up and we are meeting again for the first time this Sunday. How do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - hi i split with my ex 10 months ago, after a passionate intense 6 months relationship, we had moved in together, i realised he had a serious alcohol problem, i know a lot about that issue, he had stolen money off me before, we were sharing money but ...

I don't want to be too available to him, how can I progress this relationship without doing so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - The man i used to date last year after a period of more distance between us now seems to be more friendly. I like him and i usually go out with him when we arrange it. However, i have a lot of doubts about continuing a more intimate relationship. ...

Why is my boyfriend blowing cold? Does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Having spent a part of my holiday together, my boyfriend is now very cold and I hardly see him. Two weeks ago was the first time since our holiday in August and I did not even get a kiss on the cheeks. Is there something I should be doing, should...

This feels so wrong to be flirting so openly with him while his girlfriend has no idea!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Ok, so this is a very complicated situation. I have been in a relationship for the past 9 months. It is a very dysfunctional relationship, so we're taking some time apart right now. When I first met this guy, we started hanging out with his cous...

Should I have a relationship with a man 22 years older than me? What will happen in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Just as the saying goes " love is blind",I am in love with a man who is 22 years older than me (i'm 28), he divorced couple of months ago, he loves me so much, making me feel I am having the whole world. This kind of beloved feeling never happens to ...

How can I let him know I am over him and just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok i posted a lot of things on here actually.. im having trouble getting over what happened i explained it in detail in one of my other writings.. long story short i got left for some ghetto girl on homecoming nite for a guy i committed to and...

He has already proposed to me, do you think he could be using me just to get citizenship in America?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i started talking to this guy over the summer and he is arabic. and i cant tell if hes using me for my greencard. im 18 and hes 22. he respects me and he treats me good. over the summer he asked me to get engaged but its just between me and him ...

Perspective anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I really need some perspective. My bf and I are at college. He will be graduating in a few months and I will have another semester after that. We go to school near each other but this year we live pretty much at my place. He has a place at his ...

She loves someone else...should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - here's the story, Kim loves me (not real names), i love amy, amy loves katie (yes shes bi), and katie well she loves everyone (shes sorta a sl*t.) so main point i love amy who says she loves me but also loves katie....i have waited for months for ...

How do I get through to him that it's not funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

26 October 2009 (?) - soo me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 5 months now. we're jus coming back from a huge fight and break up and arent exactly together, jus working on things. so this weekend has been very good and we're happy, but today, i was at my ...

Is this normal behavior for a guy in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and a half now. Things in the begining were great, of course, as with any new relationship. But it was our 2nd go at it, because the first time we met (on a blind date, which was cool) and dated ...

My cheating boyfriend aggravates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend cheated on me like 3 mnths ago and i took him back he said that she got pregnant by his bestfriend and then yesterday we were talking and i told him how sick i was cuz i got the flu and he was like O ARE YOU PREGNANT and DONT ...