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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he interested or just keeping me hanging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My ex split up with me 2 months ago. I didnt want it to end but he felt we were fighting too much and needed to not live together anymore. I wanted to work on things and he agreed to date but us live apart for a while and work on our problems, but ...

Is my mom in a bad relationship? or am I just too sensitive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm having trouble deciding if my mom is in a bad relationship or I'm just too sensitive. She started seeing this guy Tim last year and at first he seemed okay. Kind of loud and rude, but fine. I never liked him much but he seemed to make her happ...

I'm not sure if I want this anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs but not sure if its what i want anymore im so confused i just dont no how to feel about him. He doesnt really show me any affection unless i ask and sex is a very sore subject to approach to him because every ...

He shows a blatant disregard for my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were having sex and i just wasn't in the mood I asked him could we stop repeatedly but he just pretended like he didn't hear me. I started to think how wrong it was that he wasn't listening to me and started crying, then he got ...

Uneasy feelings about his ex are resurfacing again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - ok...I'm feeling very upset, frustrated, confused etc. I've been with this man for a year. We have broken up several times (for an hour or two - once even for over night). No we are not young, however his not use to being in a relationship where you ...

Can anyone please shed light on what the hell is going on with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - For the best part of 2 years, I have been seeing my boyfriend most weekends, as he lives 60 miles away. To give you a bit of background: We had been living together previously in the same town for about a year and a half in what was a very int...

I snooped and found emails to different exes. Should I try and forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My. Boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. It has had it's ups and downs but we have been getting along very well lately. I recently snooped on his computer even though I know I shouldn't have. But there were a bunch of messagages ...

By cutting him off, will he realize what he is walking away from?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My husband walked out on me and our 2 children 3 months ago for another woman at work who is 17 years younger than him. We have been married for 9 years and together for 13. I have tried everything I can to try and win him back and I know he is ...

I want to sleep with my girl friend...how can I convince my husband to share?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 14 years to a wonderful man that I am very much in love with. However after I got married I realized that I was bisexual. About ten years ago I had a girlfriend that he knew about and I loved her very much. At that time he ...

He say's his saying bad things is training to see if I can be his wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm worried,me and my fiance are born again christian and we have been together for ten months now.at first we were fine with each other and and loved one another so much,but these days he becomes too hard on me,he is every day quarraling and says ...

Can my abusive ex be any different second time around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My abusive ex bf wants me back. But I dont understand why. The reason he dumped me in the first place was because I wouldn't let him control and abuse me, I would stand up for myself. So why would he want me back if I stood up for myself? Does h...

Why did he want me to move in when everything I does annoys him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 3 years, he has asked me to move in with him, which is great but since then he has changed towards me. he talks to me like I am a child I feel like I am being told off constantly, I don't do that right I don't ...

Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...

How do I tell b/f I'm moving and he can't come?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Its a long story... I met my boyfriend over a chat site on my phone [via bigpond]. After a few days we got together. It was a long, looong distance relationship. I live in the Darling Downs of Queensland and he lived in Hobart, Tasmania. We talked ...

How can I tell if hes telling the truth about not wanting to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year now. he has and ex gf who he was with for a year but that was 2 years from now. we are living together at his moms and she still calls him and wants to hang out and normally he would ...

Is it possible to fall back in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall back in love again, when fallen out of love whatever the circumstances? is there any hope at all? i would really appreciate the advice, or and comments, thanks....

How do I get over a cheater and end it for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - To make a long story short, my boyfriend of 4 years is a habitual cheater. I have kicked him out of our home after discovering another affair, but I still find myself thinking of him and wanting to work things out. We remain in contact via phone ...

Me and my ex just got back together and I don't think she wants to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex just got back together and i dont know what it is but i dont think she wants to be with me. Two times when i ask her for us to go out she tells me lets just be friends. I ask her y and she says cause she dont like going out she would ...