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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why do I want to be with someone who shows little regard for my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My ex and i broke up more than a year ago, and moved away from each other, we were together for a year and half, and it was a very passionate relationship, we definitely loved each other a lot, but i hurt his pride, and that was it for him. A fe...

I am starting to feel more possessive after our 'fooling around' sessions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I'm 28 suffering from bouts of depression. Started talking to a friend over a phone who, I don't even like that much but, suddenly we started flirting. I went over to his place and we fooled a bit. No intercourse just oral sex. He does'nt love me ...

His retreats are hurting me! How can I bring us closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and get I get very close and then he retreats again. Pushing himself into work to maintain distance. Is there anything I can do to help him alleviate his fear. He was married once and he said it took him 3 years to get over it. I ...

If I left it up to him, we'd never talk again. At what point do I give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I have a male friend, we have a history together and that does mean we are more honest and volatile than normal friends but i really dont think this is about that. He has had a pretty troubled life and no-one that has come into his life has ever ...

He can be abusive and uncommunicative but I don't want to hurt him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years now. We have had many rows over the past yrs and they have ended miserably. He can be very abusive and uncommunicative. I feel like he brings out the worst in me. I did break up with hi...

He hooked up with my sister so did I do the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I have been casually seeing a guy since June. We started to get closer in July, and when i hooked up with another guy, he felt hurt. We talked about it, and made up. At a graduation party a week later, i was there with my family, and he was there as ...

Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He pr...

I'm confused and scared but he's playing games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been kind of a on and off realtionship for a year and a month. we finally had sex after a year and the third time we had sex the condom had busted, and we arent together. he told me he would step up and be a man if i got ...

Can love come without respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm asking this because I broke up with my boyfriend some time ago. He had given so many red flags that I thought it was time to let go finally. When we were going out, he called and texted me regularly, came over quite often, and bought me ...

The break up problem is never solved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - Hi. The long distance relationship ended after a year. We have no contact for months and last week, she called. We have great conversation and out of blue, she said she miss me. There is no official statement but I think we are back together. I lo...

I always fight and blame him that he's cheating on me, what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Hi ! Its quite long but il appreciate if you'l spend some time and give your advise. I was 9 when my parents died. After that we were staying with our grandparents....and year after year my grandparents also died. Left in my family were three of ...

Cant he find himself with me IN his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Long story here, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We met online, and were great friends, he always had a crush on me, we were friends for about 2 years before we really started ...

Please someone tell me how I stop all this negativity and hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

4 October 2009 (M) - I've been batterd and beaten I've been in fights I've been hurt physically and emotionally. my first love was killed and the murderer got off because I broke his nose ribs and hurt his neck. I got severe probation, house arrest and was court ordered ...

He made a move on a girl right in front of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now...well let me refraise that we are friends with benefits sota speak...i no not the best relationship, but we keep eachother company. Anyways my question to you is....Not more than a day after he left ...

Just "bad parenting skills"???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

4 October 2009 (F) - If there is anybody out there in the legal profession, I would truly like to understand this. No, on second thought, I have no desire to understand this at all. Please tell me what I can do to fix this because it is sooooooo wrong! While I don't ...