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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend won't go wild in bed, is he not attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I`ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and sex has it ups and downs but he tells me that he will not go wild me cause he respect me too much. He doesn't do oral sex cause he doesn`t see me as an object. Is he not attracted to me or does he see ...

He is ignoring my request to get back together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hello I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he has another girlfriend/date. He told me that he does not have any. I texted him "that we can try again.And if you are not interested then tell me". He did not contact me in three hours so I tex...

My husband is always cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am an indian woman whois very sincere to her husband and family. We got married 30 years ago after 7 years of love with each other inspite of my parents unwiilingness they maaried us. My husband had cheated me earlier also many a times. and i was ...

What if she chooses smoking over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - hey i have a problem with my girlfriend she used to smoke before we hooked up and quit when we became official because she knows that i wouldnt be with someone that smokes for reasons i told her. we are going to a party this Saturday and she said ...

I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...

My gf's family and friends keep coming and staying with us and I just want some privacy..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriends' family is always living with us. All summer, we have had SOMEONE from her family to live with us, and we have had MAYBE 7 days/nights alone. It's a brother or sister, and thier girlfriend/boyfriend. they are still in thier late ...

Fell in love too quickly and now all we do is argue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now,we're both 20 and it was amazing for the first couple of months.we fell in love really quickly and we were incredibly happy.But now all we seem to do is argue and now he feels that i dont love him ...

Treading on eggshells around my depressed partner...any advice on coping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hello All, Hope you’re well. I’m posting anonymously although I am an Aunt (it’s just to save hassle!). This is long and a bit of a ‘venting-session’ more than anything, though comforting words or advice will be very well received. Ok, I pos...

Did I ever mean anything to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - About 2 years ago I dated a woman who was just out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she was obsessed with, she was on the rebound, we dated for 5 months, she went back to him and I was heartbroken I was in love with her. To make matters worse , ...

I started wondering what else is out there. Is there something better? Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - So I am lost and confused. I am 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with my current bf for almost 9 years now. I have never questioned our relationship before, but recently I couldn't help but wonder what else is out there, is there ...

I'm having a hard time because of the long distance, how can I get him to be more expressive with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been with each other for sometime.We are now in a long distance relationship because of employment. We still manage to see each other 3 weekends a month. We still get along great and have great sex when together. We are both ...

He thinks giving me a home and living comfortably should satisfy me enough and that my life isn't that hard.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I don't understand my boyfriend. Im not even sure I can handle his lifestyle anymore. He works away and when he comes home he drinks not heavily but over a long period. Spends alot of money and is out late. In the 4-5 days he is home he could drink ...

I feel like he makes no effort anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i dont reall know where to start, have been with my long distance boyfriend for a few years now, we usually get to see each other at weekends if not then fortnightly. he has cheated once in the past, it was the first time i had been cheated on,...

How do I deal with my passive-aggressive boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is consistently passive-aggressive when he doesn't get his way, and on many occasions has subtly made small jabs at me for various reasons. It's completely unnecessary and makes me feel terrible. Because of this I rarely compliment him ...

My boyfriend's friends are very disrespectful to me! I cant hang around with them anymore but if I don't then I will rarely see my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - My bf's friends are really mean and disrespectful to me, they put me down constantly. Its gotten to the point where I am scared to hang around his friends. I dread having to spend time with them because I feel so intimidated being around them and ...

What are healthy boundaries when dealing with a Narcissist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - A friend introduced me to the term "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" and boy did it open my eyes. My father has been an INTENSE narcissistic, an especially sly one, ever since I can remember.. and until recently I thought he just had issues and ...

What gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so here goes.. My BF and I agreed to take things slow. He said we needed to talk. This was after 6 weeks of no contact. He said he loves me and cares about me. We made plans to get together to talk and grab a bite to eat on Friday. Frid...

Nothing I do is good enough!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...

Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I need your advice. Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I have had it. We have been in the same holding pattern for the last three to four years not moving forward not moving backward only ...

Am I her booty call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with ...

I hate the 'terms' we are on. Do I stay or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I had been seeing this guy for a little over 2 years. Back in July he had told me it was over. It ended because during the 2 years I was seeing him, he was engaged then got married, and well yes i was the other woman. Him and his "now former ...

I want another chance with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I used to date this guy and he was super nice and everything was good but things kinda just fell off after we had sex, I left him. I was hearing a lot from friends and I took their side even though he had done me nothing. I still like him. I want ...