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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My mom kicked me out and I have no idea where to go.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 16 (turning 17 in January) and my mom kicked me out. I don't know what to do because my Dad just got kicked out too (sensing a theme anyone?) and he lives with his mom so there's no room for me. This is the first night so I have no idea ...

Marital woes in paradise. Can anyone advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I recently married a woman that i have been in love with from the moment i first saw her 8 years ago. there was a period of 5 years where she was with someone who really abuse her mentally physically emontionally and sexually and they have a son. ...

Why does he get pissy and make comments when he doesn't get his way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he is living with family and is unemployed still. he make comments in reference to us in the future. for instance, like us having home together, kids, etc.. but what puzzles me is ...

I'm ready to go to second base. How do I get him into action?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I want to go to second (feeling up) with my boyfriend but he always acts sexually awkward. He is really nice and I really like him and I can tell he likes me. I just feel like I am more sexually mature than he is and I don't know what to do. ...

Should I continue and see where things go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a concert and we instantly connected. He asked for my number and called me the next day.. we talked for hours each day and when we weren't talking we were texting. We just really got to know each other and it seemed like we had a ...

How do I break it to my boyfriend that I'm in love with my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - How do I break it to my boyfriend that I am in love with my best (guy) friend? Background info: I met my boyfriend and best friend around the same time (2005-2006ish). I met my boyfriend on vacation in another country. I have family who live ...

Is he just leading me on? Why doesn't he call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I have a childhood friend (guy) whom I lost contact for so many years. We weren't close though but we used to sat together in primary school. Somehow around April this year we were re united again through Facebook. He lives in United States ...

I don't think I'm ready to settle down yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we met online and have been together for about 4 months now... He’s my first real relationship; all my other experiences have been disastrous one offs and this is the first time I’ve actually been on actual dates wit...

I have low self esteem, slept with another guy and know I should tell my b/f but I'm afraid!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much; he is gorgeous, intelligent good job etc. I could not ask for someone better. From what he has told me he feels the same way about me. However we have big relationship pro...

Am I just being hormonal or is it a bit odd that he wont tell me who was giving him a lift home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - My fiance is just coming back from working from home. Im in the last stages of pregnancy and we love each other very much. Hes usually really open about things and tells me what he is doing. He told me on the phone that he was getting a lift hom...

My partner has been sending sexy emails to women, is he having an affair or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 24, we met at a gay men's football club, and have been together for 18 months now. We moved in together in March, he proposed to me and we started planning for our civil partnership, and life was good up until last Wedne...

She left her ex for me, so what is the chance she will do the same thing again to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Hi I just want to know if im being stupid, paranoid or whether im justified in my thoughts. My current girlfriend left her ex to be with me. We knew eachother for years, the whole time she was with her ex, which was 6 years. Anyway i always t...

Is my boyfriend cheating or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Please help me, I'm having a bit of a problem with my boyfriend and this girl he has been texting, it started a couple of months ago when he started talking to a girl that he has known for a while but I don't know at all. He told me once he had a cr...

How can I make her understand that I am not comfortable with her seeing her ex's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - The other day my gf of 4 years (we have known each other well for 9 years) went to see an ex of hers for coffee at his place. She omitted to mention it at the time and it came up in conversation last night. This ex was someone she had and ...

I'm supposed to get married next month but I am in love with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Adnan from Pakistan, 30 year old man next month i will get marry, but im not intersting in marriage because, i already engaged in married women she live in Canada, nationlity of Indian she love her family ( brother, sister, mother, father and ...

Questions about my ex: Does she still have feelings for me and why am I so bothered by the idea of her having sex with her new boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged together into one post] Question 1: Me and my girlfriend recently broke up a week ago after being together for 3 years. We do have a daughter together. Since we broke up, all I ha...

Why can't my friend be supportive of me as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) - My friend always has to have things done her way- she always expects me to drive over, pick her up, and go somewhere. For example, she'll say she wants to go to the mall to get a shirt. She only talks about herself- her problems, her life, and so ...

Dating 1 girl but still love another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Please Help Me :( Okay, Im dating this girl but i still have strong feelings for my ex which happens to be my best friend (yes, i have a best friend that is a girl. who doesnt?) I got expelled from my school so i dont get see them that much. ...

I cum too fast and it's ruining my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - hello here is a little background.. I'm 26 years old, and I live with my 19 years old GF, we now eachother for 1 year and been in relationship for about 5 months, she is by far the most pretty woman I ever had, she is just gorgeous with a ...

Will a controlling person know when they have lost control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - If you leave someone who controlled you for many years and now they cant even contact you or know where you live, will they know now that they have lost control of you? I feel so much better knowing that person doesnt even know where i am....

Is he freaked out by the idea of commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I'm so dense when it comes to figuring out what's going on in a guy's head, especially when I like him (as is the case now). One minute I'll think he's interested and the next he'll do something to make me change my mind. Full story (sorry abo...

I'm afraid of running him off by requesting things for myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I recently being three months ago started dating a guy 9 years younger than me I am 29 he is 20. I lost my father on fathers day and then my husband left me 2 weeks after his passing. I was freinds with the guy I am dating now for a...