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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...

Should I beg for a second chance, and hope its all a phase on her part?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - Im just here to vent. It's prolly obvious that it's over and nothing can be done. I fell in love with this girl years ago... gave her everything I had, planned my future around her, would do anything for her. I looked forward to spending the rest of ...

Since I lost my job my marriage has gone downhill...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I lost my job 10 months ago and since then my marriage has gone down hill. We have been married for 15 years and have 4 kids. We have lost everything we have worked so hard for. We just filed bankruptcy and our home is in the process of ...

Did I cheat on my boyfriend, and if so does that mean I'm not happy with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, we've been together for 7 months and it feels very right, like I've found my soul mate. I've been through enough abusive/controlling/violent and generally unhappy relationships to know that I'm definitely ...

Is he jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I told the guy I am dating that I will go to a party and asked him if he could help me by giving me his opinion about the hairstyle. He acccepted. I thought he will ask me something about the party, but he did not. The only thing he knows that I ...

Opinions gratefully received. Should we stay together for the sake of the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I met my fiance a few years ago after a divorce. I was working at a tattoo studio and was "making up" for all the fun I missed out on in High School and College (I had "saved" myself for marriage). When we met, it was her intention to hav...

Return of my first love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bits but my first love is now back in my life and I'm falling in love with him all over again and we have started sleeping together. My head is so missed up I don't know what to do. I need ...

She's giving me the cold shoulder for no apparent reason... any ideas why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I started a new job about 3 months ago and met an attractive woman there. I found out through the other coworkers that she is single. For the first month or so I was working under her supervision to learn the ropes and we came to find out that we ...

Is there any way I can save this? Whatever I say is falling on deaf ears!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - (i posted a few days ago, but have reposted with extra details) my boyfriend of three years works very hard, and long hours. he has a son who lives with him, and money is tight. i also work but part time, i have three sons and we usually s...

How do I get over his mistakes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together off and on, ups and down for 7 years. We have a daughter together which is 6 years old, that we love so much. Before he went to prison our relationship was going down the drain, he never was home, he sold ...

Could he fall back in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Do you think it's possible for a man to fall out of love with a woman, and them fall back in love with her? My boyfriend and I have a house together and we've been having major problems. He's told me that he doesn't love me anymo...

How can I show her we belong together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex were together for 2 years and broke up bout 3 months ago. she wanted to get back together and i didnt want to and she said she would wait to work things out. then she get another boyfriend which made me jealous. so i wanted to get back ...

Boyfriend gave me an unwanted hickey?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - OK hi my name is mimmy.im 20 years old.and me and my boyfriends been together for 5 1/2 months. and he gave me a hickey.that i clearly didnt want.but If i tell him no he will stop and look at me and tell me why? why? you have another man at ...

G/f's past experiences have made her resentful toward men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of one year has some built up resentment towards men from the experiences she has had. I love this girl, care for her enormously and would really like to help her with this. She has been disrespected sexually, not in an abusive ...

B/f thinks its weak to say he misses me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - dear cupid me n my bf have been seeing each other for almost 9months. he seems cold to me, we dont talk to each other every day, not even a text! he told me once that he thinks it is weak to tell me he misses me! i am a flight attendant, he as...

Is this the beginning of physical abuse in the relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a fight. It was bad, I would not give up without talking, he wanted to sleep (had a test the next morning) so he ignored me and my tears (I am extremely depressed lately and feel like I have no one to turn to, so there is a ...

Am I too needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - simple: am i too needy of attention? i tend to get rejected from my boyfriend all the time to me it seems as if he'd rather go to a billiards than to just hang out with me.... i SWEAR he goes at least 4 times a week!...

Who should I believe, my boyfriend or his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriends ex wife told me that she and my bf had sex since weve been together. When I confronted him about it he said he almost had sex with her one time when she tried to seduce him. He said he stopped himself. However, months later she said ...

Why is he ignoring my texts and ca

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I have been talking to a guy for 3 months now, but I have been putting way more effort into it than he is. He never comes around my family and always expects me to come see him. All the sudden for the last 4 days I haven't heard from him. I've ...

Does he still hate me this much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - Been really good friends with a guy for many years. No romance. Finally he professed his love. I was stunned and shocked and kinda rejected him cause I was dating someone else at the time which I told him about. It's been 20 years and he just ...

My boyfriend cheated with me on his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex wife 2 or 3 times that I know of. He has kids with her and sometimes talks to her 4 to 5 times a day, but not when I'm around. I told him that if he has nothing to hide he would talk to her in front of me. She ...

Did I do the right thing by staying with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I'm very confused, and feel like my brain is not functioning properly, I make a decision know it's the right one, then change my mind. I really want your advice. Should I stay with my husband. I want to stay and be happy together, but do...