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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

B/f doesn't work and takes money from his parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hey there! My problem is that my boyfriend does not work and takes money from his parents that live in The USA to live here in Panama. He pays all the house expenses (rent 200$ a month)electricity ($50 a month)food (200$), except cable and internet...

I feel like he can't stand me at times, but why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I am experiencing difficulties in my relationship and quite frankly I am having a difficult time wrapping my head around some things and I am hoping that someone can give me a clearer sense of direction because I am lost somewhere amongst the ...

I'm beginning to think I am pregnant by a very jealous and controlling man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I tried to make this short but...couldn't. I kind of already know the answer to this but..thought I'd ask for advice. I have been dating someone for several months. We have had a argument every month except one about my ex husband. I have been ...

She changed her mind about loving me, is there anything I can do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I have known this girl a long time, and she had said to me that she loved me, i felt in the same way, however she said a while after that that she didn't. She says she "cares" about me now but i'm not sure what that means. When i confronted her ...

Is there hope to change mistakes and still get with someone you care about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Im currently single and I really never had female friends so I hang out with guys, I get hit on by guys and shame on me I do love to tease. But I realize Im wrong so how do I change it now and convince him I am not this wild child. We still never ...

I'm confused over whether he loves me or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months now and I think he's a liar. There was this time when I read his text messages and he was sending flirty messages to his "friend". And when he went out of town for 2 weeks, he said he was going to ...

We split up a year and a half ago and he is still messing me around! I need to give him an ultimatum but I don't want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me 1 1/2 years ago. He never gave me a specific reason. From then on, because i wanted to get back with him - i tried everything. Then we'd argue and he'd say - 'I was going to say we should get back together, but now ...

I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my brother and husband spending too much time together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I've recently become concerned about my brother and my husband. They're spending too much time together, and they've also keep going to Wisconsin quite frequently, which is strange considering we have no friends/family up there, and the fact we ...

When the going gets tough he always bails on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I know this sounds so stupid and i know ive figured it out in my head, well nearly but im a 40yr old woman who should no what to do. i met a married man who wasnt happy he left his wife of 28ys and we built up a relationship. we have been together ...

The father of my 4 kids could be going to prison for a rape he didnt commit, and it is all my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi i was with my partner for almost 8 years we have 3 children when he just comes in from work one day and leaves, I thought he'd be back cause he always did. But a week went by and he wasnt coming back, I asked him why and he said he was fed up ...

I'm uneasy about my boyfriend's attractive female friend, do I have a point or should I just get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a female friend he's known since university (he's now 29). She's very attractive (as he's said himself to me) and he used to fancy her a lot several years ago, when he was with his previous girlfriend. She liked him too, but then ...

How do I tell the father of my baby that I want us to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi, Im 26 and Im pregnant by someone who I was just seeing for a few months, nothing serious. It was a mistake - I was taking the contraceptive pill although had missed a lot. I did not want the pregnancy at first however he said he was really happy ...

How can I stop myself loving this man? He is a manipulative monster and a perv, I just want to stop loving him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My heart is broken, I have been with this "wonderful" man for three years now, a hairdresser, he has pampered me and took me away on breaks, i have been taken to all his family birthday meals etc. Last weekend, my birthday weekend, we were at his ...

My ex only wanted to give me oral sex and now it is affecting my new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for about 9 months and although full sexual intercourse is not so often she prefers to perform oral sex on me. The first time she did it I thought wow very experienced and a bit much as we had not really been ...

Should I hold onto the hope that he might come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - i am still very confused in what to do my boyfriend and i broke up just before last christmas after 11 wonderful years. he met someone else who has a child of 8 years old and moved straight in with her. he kept texting me right up to aug of this ...

I think he wants "space" to really break up with me but he doenst have the guts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Well ive been dating this guys since january this year.. and everything has been perfect... i mean we had dumb arguments before about why we werent going out yet, or why he did that.. nothing serious because we always seem to get over it pretty ...

I've realised I married my husband for the wrong reasons and the feelings for my ex are still there, I just don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - this is extremely long, sorry... ive been keeping this all inside for a very long time and it felt really good to finally get it out... I need help. I have really gotten myself into a pickle with this one. I have know my best friend for a...

My boyfriend told me he doesn't enjoy sex with me and thinks of his ex instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi last night my boyfriend and were cuddling in bed and we got talking about our sex life, which i believed has been good so far, ( we have been dating for a yr now) he said he doesnt enjoy sex, even though its been yrs since he broke up with hi...

Should I cut my losses early and run like the wind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I am very recently married to a man who has a number of children by different women. These children and their mothers cause constant friction and trouble between us, there is always some drama and he is constantly called away to hospitals, police ...

I want my boyfriend and his brother too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm a mother to 2kids and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6years now. Just last week when we had a drink at one of his brothers girlfriends aunty and when we left home me and his brother started txting eachother. My boyfriends ...

He lets his family tell him what to do about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody please help me.I need help.I'm so sad and confuse.I have been date with him for 2 years and we live together.Past 2 month ago we move to his home town. when we live before we don't have no problem. After we moved to his home town he ...

Troubled girlfriend looking for a way to make my boyfriend realize what he's got before it's gone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going through a divorce, but still talks to his ex ALL the time. They have a daughter together, so I understand them having to talk some, but not about how eachother's day went, etc. He is constantly texting when he is with me, but ...

I am confused and am unsure how I should continue with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I don't know if I should get a divorce. At this time my husband is not living at home. I made him leave a few weeks ago after a drunken rage caused him to threaten me and his boys. He is an alcoholic and relapsed. I have been dealing with this ...

Am I just being paraniod?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - AM I JUST PARANOID? well my boyfriend an I are having problems because of this girl named Amanda, when I come to think about the 'breaks' we took away from each other it didn't really take him a week to go to another girl's house.. I'm really c...

Vicious Cycles of personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for quite awhile. In that time we've been evolving and had our ups and downs as any couple have. We split up for a couple of months this summer, and then got back together, and I've since started realizing where the ...

Is it jeolousy or is it her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend I have been together over 4 years. We were planning to get married this december, but we had been having some arguments/differences, and I had started to have some serious trust issues with her. She started to hang out with a single ...

Boyfriend makes me so anxious its affecting my body

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 31. I am very happy sexually, my boyfriend is not. He says he is then he says he isn't. We've been going through a rough patch (and I mean he's been very verbally abusive) and my mind and body have been thrown very...