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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Since the divorce, my bipolar ex has made life hell for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am in dire need of help!!! I am a 47 year old female. I divorced my bi polar husband and we have been seperated for five years. I have not moved past the pain of the divorce. I have not accepted it and regret it. My husband was the love of my ...

Have I been to harsh on him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Sorry this is a long prob! but any advice wud be gladly appreciated. Am 16 wks pregnant. Partner is being difficult. One min dying to be with me the next rejecting me constantly. So things were not great at dinner and he said he was going home t...

How to erase the ex from my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hii so my ex boyfriend is a total jack ass. like he is extremly sick and mean. he used to like verbilly abuse me and he liked seeing me get hurtt. he would call me fat ugly and useless alll of the time. he even made me drop myy best friend for ...

He says he needs space and now I'm confused should I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - On july 10..i met the man of my dreams. We fill in love very quickly and they kicked off pretty good. We both said we loved each other and we did alot 2gether. I even found out i was 6 weeks pregnant on sept 7th. We were both happy about that ( i ...

Why would he turn against me? And what does "one-nill" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I went out with this boy in April, i finished him after a week because he was really clingy. Then a few months later i got feelings for him again, my friend told him, that night on msn he asked me if i liked him ; i said yeah, because he said he ...

Does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Last night, I went to my school's football game because the guy that I like--who's on the team--invited me to come and watch; when the game was over he met me over by the gate where everyone comes in and asked did I enjoy it amongst other things, ...

Does he really care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hey, Im 18 years old and i just got back with my boyfriend after a 5 month break. He has changed to a very sweet person and regretted everything he has done to me. and i was good enough to forgive him, since im not so perfect either, but the ...

I don't want to causing cheating, but I'm still in love with my best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have known my best friend for 2 years now, starting freshmen year of college. He is now my roommate. We hung out every day, have many inside jokes, nicknames, and we used to say I love you. We never really went out because we had communication ...

Boyfriend wants oral, but I have memories of being forced...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old now, and have met a guy I really like. He wants me to move in with him, and I am really looking forward to it. But I am really troubled about it to. Since living with my Mom at home, I have had the excuse not to do to much sex ...

My BF really scares me because he can be sweet, and then extremely abusive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - [Note from Mod: Two questions from same poster] I have run out of options. I feel so run down. I am dead inside and so confused. My boyfriend will curse at me...accuse me of infidelity...throw things at me...spit on me...call me derogatory ...

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - 37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I ...

How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for a little over a year our begaining wasn't so good. I have learned to trust him but he still don't trust me. How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?...

Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...

I love him but whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started ...

He always flirts with girls, but I thought he found me special. He is so confusing, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Okay so there's been this guy I have liked for a few months now. We are extremely close, and always open up to each other. He has a reputation as a ladie's man, he always flirts with girls and then leads them on. All my friends thought he liked me, ...

My sisters say I am going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - HI!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl of 26 years. My problem is that i recently got devorced from my husband who was a complete jerk. We didn't have any kind of relationship and i only spend 8 days with him. I am now doing my ph.d in genetics and some...

Should I expect him to take care of me and the baby seen as I lost my job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby and my bf who i live with and plain on marrying is paying the bills right now. he complains becouse every thing is in my name. only becouse my family helped us get on our feet since we was living with his family for over a year. ...

I'm 15 and online friends with a 40 year old

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - i recently became online ''friends'' with a man and i think everything heads in the wrong direction.i met him through an online game.he told me he needs someone to explain him the game,so i agreed to help him and added him in the buddy list,as he ...

Did she disappear because I said I love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - please help on this case i wish some experienced aunties would give me some fullfilling answers me 33 yrs and a girl 37 yrs both married but she intiated the flirting atmosphere with me, in other words she was persuing me for a long time before...

Ultimatium from family: Your ex or us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I've been dating my best friend for a few days now. We dated about two weeks ago, but we broke up and he dated his ex girlfriend. Then he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me, left her, and now we're dating. My ex boyfriend comes back in town. We...

Nice guy has turned into a jerk! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Ok well here goes nothing..I have nobody else I can talk to and I need to get some advice. First I am going to ask people not to put me down for my decisions, because i could never regret them. I have 2 beautiful children who I love very much. My ...

Why am I the abused in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am very confused. Currently sleeping on the bathroom floor after being called a liar, being spit on, having multiple small objects thrown at me, and I was the one called the abuser. When I heard him say this, I stepped out of the washroom and...

We have a FWB relationship so why does he keep asking about other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I know most men are literal, but maybe I've been out of the dating game too long to read the signs. I joined a dating site earlier this year and reached out to a man that I felt was someone that fit me. He responded and we spent the summer...

I am not happy in my relationship so should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - i have a fiancee that had a relationship with his first cousin and they had kids together 3 and one died. when i first met him he had a picture of his cousin in his wallet, after we started our relationship, i told a few of my friends about him and ...

Why would my ex tell me she is not happy with her new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - my ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but i think she is not happy in the new relationship. because when i was talking to her on msn she said her boyfriend called me a rude name. so i knew her boyfriend doesnt like me for some reason and my ex said ...

Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex after 4 years together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex when my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years on and off? My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me for the non-sex part and than wants to get back together with me. We had around 5 breakups. Each ...

His parents call me a predator!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...