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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I get out of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been together for 18 months and have a 7 week old daughter together. he has threatened my life recently and last night he really crossed the line- he grabbed me by the arms and pushed me really hard ( i think i was 1 step away fro...

Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...

He's not interested in seduction. Do I resort to a sexless relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i have a fabulous and close relationship with my partner of 16 months. he is unfortunately not interested in sex/love making. the first 2 months was brilliant since then we probably have had 10 minute sessions about 4 times. i probably 'nag' a bit ...

He has a kid and I've slowly grown to hate him. How can I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am 19, and my partner is 23. He has a six year old son from a previous relationship. The mother split with him as soon as she found out she was pregnant, and is now in a gay relationship. She prevented him seeing his child for 3 years or so after ...

What can you do when you really like someone but you know it would never work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - hey can you please give advice on what to do about a guy you really really really like hes always on your mind last person before you fall asleep and first before you wake up... but you know a relationship but the both of you would not work out.. do ...

What does my ex want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, my boyfriend and I split up about 6 weeks ago. I ended things with him because he had admitted he had feelings for another girl. Since then he has kissed this girl and they have been texting but nothing has really happened between them. He ...

I came clean to him about how I felt, and he still hasn't replied! I thought we were friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i have been seeing a man for two years, i suppose u can call it friends with benefits, i have always felt he only wants to see me for a quicki. but we have built a good friendship up, i have had a 6 month relationship during this friendship, with ...

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year b...

I'm worried that he's just not into me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Worried about relationship, stress and lack of intimacy When my bf and I met, he was very accepting and caring, and we spent a lot of time together. We were like a typical new couple. He had some hardships and illness in his family. I s...

What does her text mean? Does it mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - Heya fellas I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend and need some help and advice. We met when we were both on vacation and stayed together for 10 days, then she left and came back to her country where 'luckily' i study there too. ...

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...

We have a perfect relationship except he shakes me and pulls my hair...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together 5 months now but have known eachother for over a year. we have a perfect relationship. sometimes. when we are not fighting and screaming and wanting to strangle eachother. we fight over ...

I do all the work and he gets all the pleasure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - my live in b/f of two years won't touch me during foreplay or during intercourse. i do all the work, hell i'm the one that always makes the first move,and when i ask him why he says "i never give him a chance". i'm always sucking his dick until he ...