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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I caught him watching porn again despite him telling me he quit! Should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I am 26 yrs old, im latina, most of my friends says im a vey pretty women, i am living with my bf, he is from usa, i love him so much, i left everything to be with him (my family, friends, job) . the fist time i caught him watching porn was bec...

The love of my life adds pornstars to his facebook!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is the love of my life, an utterly lovely man, but also a very naughty, horny man. He likes his porno films and has tons. I've never minded this as I do like it to, but recently he's started adding the pornstar girls on his facebook.. ...

I feel like I need to get away from him but I'm doomed alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what to think anymore. Ive been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. When we met he gave up going out to bars every night because I wasnt old enough (him being 10 years senior my new adult status). A few of his female friends were ...

Should I listen to my heart or my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I'd like some advice on how to get my heart to listen to my head, or whether I should carry on as I am. A month ago, I split up with my bf of 9 years. We were happy for 7 years, lived together for 5 years, but then split up in May 2008 when ...

I can't figure out what's wrong with my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 11 months now. We both graduated college. He has a job and Im still looking for one. He lives about 45 minutes away from me so we get to see each other about 2 times a week. Other th...

His family are very religious and I'm not. Can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I haven't been one to have many good realonships, over a year ago i had a break down last year over my ex which i had nearly died from as i was treated so badly by my ex but now i have moved on and in a realonship with another guy whos more mature ...

How to deal with my love for her and my trust issues, including her smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for five and a half months and we recently moved up to the same college together. We have been having troubles in our relationship, she has bad ptsd which makes her very angry and very stressed very ...

My boyfriend has this theory that because he works longer hours and makes more money, he shouldn't have to lift a finger at home?!?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Is this normal? Am I crazy? OK so I have been with my man for almost 4 years now. Right now I am between jobs so I pick up most of the slack with the housework. Here's my problem. When I am working full time I am also responsible for ...

Ex doesn't believe the baby is his and treats me very badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My ex was supposed to pay half a deposit for a pregnancy antenatal visit. He had agreed (prior to breaking up) to pay half then 1 hr before the appointment today he decided to go back on his words and not pay...meaning I am now trying to get any ...

I can't get over his dirty magazine habits!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hi All, i cant believe im am writing and asking for advice, ive always been the one giving out advice and never needed any before. I am one of these that tackle any problems i have had in my life and then just get on with it. But im at a loose en...

She just wants sex, but I want marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - i am 30 years old man and one of my best friend's sister likes me. she is very hot sexy and her figure is very attractive. i also like her and i want to be married with her but she does not want. she want to have sexual living relationship and ...

I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend spending time with his close female friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - i always feel really uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time alone with his one close girl friend. i know some ppl will think im being paranoid, but please hear me out. i never put my bf in that situation where he feels jealous/insecure about ...

Why would he want me to abort his baby if he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to have an abortion because we are still young, and his mother does not approve of a girl who is not married to have a second child. I am confused whether he loves me or not, why does he want me to do abortion?...

I want to plan our future but he thinks I'm thinking too far ahead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I go to seperate colleges and he plays baseball. We have been together for 3 years and were planning on getting married the summer after graduation. Everytime I bring something up that I'm concerned about I.e. Money or something ...

What does having a casual relationship mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night an...

After being in an abusive relationship I'm scared that maybe all guys are like that and I deserve that kind of relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I am 16 and I was recently involved in an abusive relationship with a guy a year younger than I am. I normally don't date younger do to their immaturity level because however I am on a higher level then most my age. Everything was perfect ...

Could this really be it after 8 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - ok after 8 yrs my girl said its over .yeah we had or problems in the past just minor stuff arguing nothing crazy shes the girl that changed everything about me over that time. she has always gave in when we argued before but now she wont even return ...

How can I get him back without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need help... I'm in love with a guy, our past is pretty messed up... (he's cheated once while drunk, etc) ... we've fought off an on since then about petty crap and the same issue (cheating). He made amends when it came to cheating, though...

I feel stupid for letting it get so bad, we have to fix this or we break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'm not really used to this whole blogging your feelings thing but here it goes: -takes deep breath- I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I truly do love him. He is honest(tactless but honest nonetheless), a great provider, and sh...

How do I keep our friendship without feeling this discomfort around her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - To start: I am just over eighteen and still inexperienced with matters of the heart, I have dated quite a few girls and they all said they loved me but I never really felt it back. Now there is this girl who I have been friends with for maybe f...

He says he's going to cheat on me - should I chase after him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (?) - to make a long story short, me and my bf of 3months have been fighting lately because he tells me hes going to go chill with other girls and cheat on me and stuff and i get pissed and he gets mad and says im insecure. so now he said he needs to ...

Is this girl playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. After months of no contact, my ex called me and said she missed me. I still have feelings for her, but I feel strange because she can't just come back to me right? When I think of it, she's way higher class than me, and I get ...

I just can't be with him anymore. How can I get him out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need to move on and I know that. The man I was seeing (fallen in love with) was separated and going through a divorce. He asked me out and I accepted and we had the most fantastic 5 months together. His ex started threatening to move away with ...