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I'm afraid that my cheating on my LDR boyfriend will come back to haunt me! What can I do?

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Question - (12 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female Åland Islands age 36-40, *iss williamz writes:

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2years. We have been on a long distance relationship. But 7months ago my boyfriend kept distance and he barely communicated with me. So ididnt know what to think about our relationship. I tried to talk to him but he was cold whenever he talked to me and this really hurt. I consoled myself and decided to live without think about him even though i still loved him. I met a man during that 7months we talked on the phone it was also a long distance relationship. But finaly i met up with the man. That was the 5th month and we made love. After 2months later my boyfriend started to show intrest again. I dont love the other man and he didnt make me happy as i expect so i couldnt stay with a man who doesnt make happy i broke up with him. And i continued to talk to my boyfriend. But upto this minute am still not sure about what i did, please help because i still love my boyfriend and am scared what idid to come and haunt me later cause i dont intend to tell him..help a sister?

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A female reader, Miss williamz Åland Islands +, writes (13 August 2009):

Miss williamz is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Miss williamz agony auntThe thing is ididnt know what he was doing. And recent hes closest pal told me the guy has a girl and hes being flating with other women.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (12 August 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntTry being honest.

LDR's rarely if ever work. And really if you cheated on him you dont love him. That is simply impossible.

Please grow up, tell him and accept the consequences of your actions. why should he suffer for what you did?

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A female reader, lealea United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2009):

look you have to tell him, i know u dont want to but u have to tell him one day he will find out or u will have to live with guilt for rest of ur life, just sit him down exsplain to him how u felt and that u regret it and hope he understands

hope i helped

tc x

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