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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in an off and on relationship for the past 4 years. This guy and I have summer houses beside each other. I only see him in the summer. There are a few problems, he lives 3 hours away from where I live in the winter and my parent’s don’t really like him that much. We have basically have grown up together, and we are very close. We talk on msn a lot when we don’t see each other and we text constantly when things are going good. He has told me he loves me and we are meant to be, and I believed it. When we spend time together in the summer when we can, but it’s hard to say goodbye when summer is over. Every year when we go back to school he usually ignores me and blocks me out of his life. I try to contact him but he never replies or calls back. But then sometimes he randomly messages me but it only usually lasts a couple of weeks then he blocks me again. It has been like this for 4 years and I really do not understand what is going through his mind. A few weeks ago he told me that he loves me and is really sorry for the times that he has hurt and upset me, but he hurts me every time he ignores me. I don't really know if I should believe him anymore. I see him again in another week, and I am afraid that he won’t talk to me. We have both tried to move on but it never really seems to work out that well. I am attached to him and can't seem to let go, I love him. I really wish things could work out between us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): Could it be that he can't travel to your home because there is an issue between him and your parents? That this may pushing him away. When guys are busy, they put others in like a freeze position, like with a remote control, I'll just put that person on hold, then they come back their usual attentive selves. If he can't be around you, he's occupying himself with all the time he has free. Guys don't like it either when there is fighting around, so the issue with your parents is a delicate one. I think you need to start the communications going with your parents to reach an understanding. He knows where he's not welcome.
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