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*opefulYouth
writes:Me and my best friend are very very close to and 18 years old. He's 19 in 2 months. Over the past 18 months we've argued god knows how many times but always got through whatever has been thrown at the three of us, but heres the problem, me and my best friend went away for a week, he's found 3 new friends of whom he has a really good laugh with, our problem is, if he's having such a laugh with them, surely he would chose those who makes him happy over us two that he argues with a lot?Yes we're scared of losing him. We feel like we're going to get left behind, you see when we came along we replaced a few lasses in his life and became his favourites, so surely that could happen again to us? I was with him yesterday and he mentioned one of them and I wouldnt talk to him, he looked at me and said come on you know I'd chose yous over them any day, so I gave some of the example above and he said exactly why I'd chose yous, weve been through a lot and I wouldn't want to lose yous again. It's weird I know but he's just the same about a group of lads we have a laugh with :/ how do we solve this?
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reader, HopefulYouth +, writes (12 August 2009):
HopefulYouth is verified as being by the original poster of the question if you understood what exactly we argue about , hes no angel. he lied to us about going into hospital. so yeah trust issues much.
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reader, redgem +, writes (12 August 2009):
 Your young to be worrying about that. Friends come and go but the very best ones (the ones worth worrying about!) will always be around. They are the friends that you know exactly where you stand and that never put you in awkward situations or try and replace you. Sounds like you and the other girl that like him should just be there for one another and let him get on with it - with or without you!
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reader, anoying743  +, writes (12 August 2009):
If he's not treating you like a real friend does forget about it i know its very hard i've gone through it to they'll keep askin for another chance and its best to give them 1 but they'll keep doing the same thing! It will get worse pretty soon they'll act like they dont even know you.. but u have othr friends so it will alll work out trust me just give it time...
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