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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Should I go with my ex or hers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have the ultimate dilemma! Lately, for some reason I've been getting out of the ordinary male attention. Firstly it started with my ex, we went on a date recently, as bad as it was we agreed to see each other again. Which may or may not be a ...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

Is wife dropping hints that she wants a threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My wife has REALLY enjoyed when I use a dildo on her while giving her oral, about a month ago, I was doing that, and then just using the dildo on her. She said, you like watching that don't you? Are you imagining another guy doing me? I said yes! ...

Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...

Is his promiscuous ex flirting with my man? What can I do to stop it, or am I possessive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I have a loving relationship with my bf for a month plus. Before that we already knew each other for almost a year. Although I'm very happy with everything, I can't help but feel that his ex is trying to flirt with him. She replies ...

My friend tried to make my boyfriend end it with me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - So this girl that I have been getting pretty close as friends, I met her a couple months back. Well I also just recently came out of a relationship and she has kinda been right there with me. I have reunited with someone whom I never really gave ...

Feeling angry all the time because I don't trust my boyfriend and these other people are getting in the way of our relationship...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Okay, firstly this is my question; I don't know what to do. In the very begining of my relatonship with my BF, if im being honest he wasnt the best and even he will say that now too. He never wanted to text a lot or see each other and he put th...

Am I overreacting? I have told her how uncomfortable it makes me feel but she says I can't tell her what to do....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hi all, Right been with my partner for 2 years and basically an old friend of hers from school found her on the dreaded facebook. He is a 17 year old guy from pakistan who is always with his older brother. Now my gf has alot of guys friend and ...

My married ex is desperate to meet me for 10 minutes, do I give in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I've been reading articles but none seem to match my situation. Recently I have been seeing a ex who is married (I am also married) we fell out and I ended our affair and went no contact. I didn't think I mattered to him or that ...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

Seems like every girl loves him. He flirts. What should I do? Don't want to appear jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I really like a boy and I know he loves me. But it seems like every girl loves him. He knows it too. It really makes me feel insecure and jealous when he flirts with other girls. Is it normal for a boy to do this? Am I overreacting? I'm afraid that...

I really do like this girl, but I don't want to be THAT guy. She has a Bf already

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4805 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming clos...

He's moving away, and this could be our last chance of a relationship, help! Do I give it a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hey, any advice would be appreciated! right, first of all I'll tell you the basic story. I'm with this guy. I met him in college, he's similar to me in things like music, and our views on things, I get on well with his family and he does with min...

Is my man interested in more than friendship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Well my current relationship is kinda unsure to me, only because i often hear about his friend he had in high school. He said more then once that if he was ever to marry anyone, it would be her. He claims she is a friend to this day and often calls ...

My girlfriend had a drunken fling and now the guy won't leave us alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Long story short my gf has broken up with me and had drunken sex with a guy she barely knew She says sex with him was amazing and he was way "bigger" than me I hate that fact but she says I shouldn't worry that he meant nothing and it only happened...

My boyfriend took another girl to a hotel but swears he didn't cheat. What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - sorry about this being so long ... i met my boyfriend at the age of 16 and weve been together ever since, weve had a lot of ups and downs and now i need advice. After been together 6 months, it was just a pritty average relationship then...

The love of my life has been online cheating. I've never felt sadness like this before. Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - Last night my heart was broken. I found out the girl that I planned to marry and live happily ever after with, has fallen for some online with someone else and spends hours each day flirting with and getting emotionally close with him. I'm in shoc...

Help! I'm falling in love, seriously, in love with someone else's boyfriend? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - Help me please!. I'm pulling my hair our here! I go to church every Sunday. Now I've known this family at church for a few years. Mates with the mom. Has three gorgeous boys. I have always liked the middle one. Except he has a gf since I've kno...

If my b/f wants to keep in touch with his ex, its fine. If I want to do it, he gets really hateful! Why the double standards?

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22 September 2011 (F) - Here's the situation. Over the past year I've been having problems with my fiance texting his ex-girlfriends, some of the stuff inappropriate, and I told him how much it hurt me. So he deleted every girl's number out of his phone. (He was having ...

Will marrying someone who cares about me help me forget my 31 year old married lover ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - well i am in love with a man whose 31 years old while i am early 20s, sadly hes married and has a child.so i want to get rid of him but cant.so i am thinking of getting married to someone.at least i will have a husband and a home with whom i ll sha...

The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF? I know I'd want to know if my BF was meeting his ex. But I'm thinking guys don't care that much. What's the proper way to deal with this?...

He contacted me. Now he's ignoring me. Is he having second thoughts because he's married? Or jealous that another guy is interested in me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - An old high school flame contacted me on facebook after 10 years. We were in love and we had to break up due to his move to another high school. He met a woman nothing but a year after we broke up and he is married to her now with a child. I am...

She has a boyfriend. Should I say nothing? Or try to confess to her my feelings and get rejected and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - Hello, I'm 18 years old currently in college freshman year and I have feelings for my younger cousin she's 15 and currently in freshman year of high school. Here's the thing first I was only physically attracted to her. I mean I didn't think about ...

Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or go after the other guy who has a 6 month old baby and a babymama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. ...

What can I learn from this? And can I get over it? I am a major reason for her changing and for the breakup.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

21 September 2011 (M) - So.. I have been with this girl for a bit over two years now. one and a half of it being long distance. We broke up recently, basically we were breaking and making up for the last 3 months of the relationship. This was the final one basicall...

I can't figure him out. Is he a real GIGOLO as he says, what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I have a male friend with whom first were co-workers now just friends. I was his confidant when his Girlfriend dumped him 6 months ago, so I know he's still very hurt. He's been a BIG flirt with the ladies so he's always telling me he's having some ...

My husband had a 2 hr long, intimate conversation with a girl and I cannot believe this is happening to me. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - First of all, I would like to thank everybody that takes the time to answer my question. I would just like to know what people consider cheating in a marriage, or if anyone has been in the same situation. I am 24yrs old, married for t...

In a Love Triangle -- What to Do?......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - so me and my ex boyfriend was together for a year and a half. so in the spring time around march- april he tells me that he wants to be my friend . now this wasnt the first time that he had told me that really like the third time . so i finally got ...

Why is my lesbian partner lying to me when she goes to meet a "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Why is my lesbain partner lying to me when she goes to meet a friend? This friend happens to be an ex of hers, but holy batman, she tells her everything that goes on in her life and when I ask her what she did on her day off, she says "nothing" ...

On/Off/On/Off - What is her problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - i was with my girlfriend for two years, lived together for one. i loved her so much. well she started cheating on me and left me for another guy a few months back, and it crushed me. i eventually moved on and started seeing another girl. well ...

I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him, but things aren't good between them. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm falling in love with a women who is with someone and who has a child with him. Things are not good in there relationship though, she has spoke to me about it a couple of times and a few times said its make or break. I give her the best ...

Should I worry? I can't stop thinking that my boyfriend still talks with his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I've never been to a long term relationship like the one i'm having right now. I was always insecure that the guys are cheaters and they will hurt me, so casual sex was pretty much what i was doing. When i men the guy i'm seeing right now i felt v...

I love C and he loves me. But what do I do about my best friend A? She'd be mad at me for this

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19 September 2011 (F) - Hi, well I have a problem. Last friday was my school dance and my best friends crush C was there. C told me that A owed him a slow dance,(A likes him but he doesn't like A) but my best friend A didn't show up! Then he said if A didnt show up I had...

I did the right thing by her. But she likes another. How do I cope with this rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - i feel like i did the right thing but it hurts.. i like a girl and we're great friends.. anyways she's telling me how she likes some guy (not me i know who he is) and that she thinks he loves her back.. well i told her what i really know about hi...

Even if they do break up I don't want to be the rebound guy!

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18 September 2011 (M) - There's this girl, she has a boyfriend, when we met about 3 months ago there was an instant attraction, and I started flirting with her. We became good friends, but never crossed a line, until one night when we were drunk we confessed our feelings. ...

What went wrong here? How did things change so suddenly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Hello to anyone who reads this. I have heard this is a good site for advice so here goes... Met someone and hit off big time. Always recieving texts and asking to meet them. Saw each other everyday and spent most nights at their house. Met f...

Should I still hang on,and hope he forgets her,or should I move on ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - So,there is this guy.I've had a crush on him for a while,mostly on and off.My best friend dated him for like 1 week last September,and 1 week in January,even though she knew i liked him.Needless to say,she dumped him both times,and even hooked up ...

Both of us like each other...but she has a boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Hi all again, I've got a problem this time with a girl I really like. I met her about a month ago and we really like eachother. Even though I knew she had a boyfriend, I told her how I felt about her. She told me that she felt the same way about ...

What do you make of the entire messy situation between my ex and this other woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I recently ended a relationship of almost two decades. My ex was an extreme binge drinker throughout. I am still getting over it all. One thing that I am having difficulty with is: a couple of years back I was away with work on the other si...

I found out my husband wants a threesome and its making me sick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - hello, i need sme advice. my husband recently wrote on here asking whether he should ask me if i wanted a 3sum, well him watching me and the girl. It was titled "I have a fantasy about my wife being with another woman. Should I tell her?" He has ...

Hubby having/had an affair???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Had or having an affair? hes 31 but 2 months ago he trashed his 24 year old friend by revealing her sexual antics on radio,the number of men she slept with and who's she sleeping with while hes talking and 3 weeks ago he said hes a fan of the same...

I fantasize a lot about my gf kissing and having sex with other men, anything wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - I'm 26 and she's 23. We've been together for almost 2 years now. Our relationship is great, we love each other and are serious. In fact I think she's the one. Thing is that early in our sex life I found out that imagining her having sex with other ...

Sticky "love triangle" If she doesn't know, should I tell her? That her ex is bi? That he asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - ok so im gay, been out for a while now so short story: a bi guy "came out" to me i guess last year long: This guy would come to my school to visit his girlfriend, but we'd socialize to (i didnt know him before he'd come to visit her, nor did I eve...

I'm falling for her, but she has an LDR with a guy in basic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Okay, so I'm a senior in high school, and I'm starting to fall in love with this girl who's also the same age. I'm pickin' up some good vibes coming my way from her, but nothing definite. However, she has a boyfriend - two years older than her and ...

I'm currently seeing two guys at the same time. Should I break it off with one of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - I'm in such a mess. I recently broke up with my ex of 2 years, and I met a guy on vacation who I'm sleeping with currently. I still love my ex, but I tried to cut contact with him so that I can move on. However, he wanted to talk a couple of times, ...

I have feelings for my married friend. How do I handle them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - What do you do when you have fallen in love with your friend and he is already married and doesn't feel the same way about you? You have the same group of friends and see each other everyday. How do deal with this situation? It isn't easy for me ...

I did not know he had a girlfriend! Should I tell her he had sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - I never thought I would be the "other woman." I had broken up with a boyfriend after finding out about his infidelity. Since then I had gotten a new boyfriend and moved to a different city. However, my new boyfriend didn't work out, and my ex h...

I really want a shot at him but he has a g/f

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - Well I've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, I already have pretty strong feelings for him, we have a lot of fun together and I love how easy it is to talk and be around him. I can't seem to be around him enough. He's really ...