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writes:Why is my lesbain partner lying to me when she goes to meet a friend? This friend happens to be an ex of hers, but holy batman, she tells her everything that goes on in her life and when I ask her what she did on her day off, she says "nothing" and innocently ask her if she went anywhere, she says "no". On 3 occasions, she said she was going to see a Dr, but could not get in. Then on the 4th time to see the Dr, I followed her and she did not even go near the clinic, instead, she went directly to a restaurant to meet her "friend". Why is she lying to me? I can't trust her anymore. What should I do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 September 2011):
 she is lying to you because she is afraid of your response.
would you care if she is friends with her ex?
if not then you need to confront her and ask her why she is lyng and tell her you know what's going on.
you put "friend" in quotes so I assume you believe they are having an affair.
IF there is no trust there is no relationship.
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson  +, writes (20 September 2011):
Since you cannot trust her anymore I think you need to talk to her. You need to tell her how you are feeling and to get a straight, honest answer from her.
If you find your trust in her is gone for good it would be best to leave her so that you will be able to one day find someone you can trust.
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