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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really like a boy and I know he loves me. But it seems like every girl loves him. He knows it too. It really makes me feel insecure and jealous when he flirts with other girls. Is it normal for a boy to do this? Am I overreacting? I'm afraid that if I confront him about it he'll get mad, and if I tell him that I get jealous he'll think I'm desperate. I don't want to send that message. What should I do? Please help me.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 Are you in a relationship? If so, simply tell him that when you and him are a couple it is not acceptable that he flirts with other girls. He needs to show a commitment to you. Don't mention anything about being jealous. And if he gets mad, well, let him get mad, he'll cool off after a while and be ok with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): He sounds like a player to me, actually. Also, because he isn't your boyfriend he probably doesn't see any reason not to flirt with other girls. Technically you're not together so he has no commitment to you.
If he really loves you then he will want to be your boyfriend. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, then he's just playing you by saying he loves you. Some guys string women along, (some women do that too.)
I say first establish where you stand with him. If he's not interested in a relationship you should move on to someone else. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and that respects you.
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male
reader, N91  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 If he loves you then why is he:
A: Flirting with other girls
B: Not your boyfriend?
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