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writes:Well my current relationship is kinda unsure to me, only because i often hear about his friend he had in high school. He said more then once that if he was ever to marry anyone, it would be her. He claims she is a friend to this day and often calls her and visits her or vice-versa. She's married and all, but i sometimes wonder if he has further intentions because he has all kinds of pictures of her hanging up in the room, every number she could be reached on and like i said often talks about her. Im wondering if im just wasting my time taking care of him and his kids, i put in my all to try to please him, even our intimacy has withered... Im i being worried for no reason? Or should i be taking precaution? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2011): Thanx for the feedback... I'll highly consider your responses, enough with this ish!!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (25 September 2011):
 He's actually said that about her to your face? Why the hell are you still with him and taking care of his kids?
You can try with all your might to please him, but it's never going to make him change. He's still in love with this woman and has settled for you as Plan B because she's not available. It's really a terrible thing of him to do, not to mention incredibly selfish. He has no right to not only treat you as such, but also speak about it to you as if it's acceptable.
Get out of that relationship as quickly as you can, you deserve to be with someone that actually wants to be with you.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 sweetheart i am sorry but it really sounds like he is settling for you because he cannot have her. it will be hard for you but i think in the long run you will find happiness if you break up with him and make yourself free to meet someone who wants YOU not another woman.
'He said more then once that if he was ever to marry anyone, it would be her.' - i find that an absolutely appalling thing to say to you :(
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 What I would say to him is that you worry this relationship is not working because you were wishing for someone who is crazy about you, dreams about you and wants to take care of you, and he isn't that person.
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