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30-35,
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writes:So i met this girl at school and i started falling for her. After a couple months of crushing, i found out she had a boyfriend. I tried hard to forget her and move on but it was very hard because I see her everyday. So we started becoming close friends and hang out every now and then. As the summer came she had to work a lot so we only got to hang out occasionally. She's in a long distance relationship and see's her own boyfriend occasionally(sometimes only once a month). School recently started up again and I can't help but still like her. She took me out to dinner the other night for my birthday and bailed on her bf. Although it originally wasn't supposed to be just us two it somehow ended up that way. So we had a nice dinner in a fancy restaraunt and she paid for me even though i didn't want her to. After we enjoyed a nice quiet walk down the river and had a good time. I really like this girl but I don't want to be THAT guy. should i find out if she likes me because i feel like i'm at the point of no return.
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reader, Babs1 +, writes (26 September 2011):
Every relationship is different but long distance usually doesn't work for certain reasons. However that is not your issue, you should ask her how she feels about you and just be honest with her about what you think about her. See what she says and take it from there, if shes interested you'll know and decide if its worth pursuing. If she doesn't break up with him after a while I would leave it alone.Good to remember that if she is being interested in others her long distance guy probably is too, not wrong, just natural that you want to be with someone who is around you.
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