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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. Recently I found that he had 6 month old baby, and it broke my heart because deep in my heart I had hoped that we one day will get together, i feel he was one for me. Don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend it just the other guy makes me different.I asked him if he plans to be with his babymama, and he never answer, just the thought of him being with her drive my crazyWhat should I do? Should I stay with my boyfriend and pretend nothing is going on? Or go after the other guy, even if he may be with his babymama Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 October 2011):
 You say you love your boyfriend very much but you are willing to ditch him for the baby daddy... not cool in my book.
the baby daddy is NOT interested in you as anything more than a plaything... tread carefully there.
as for the current boyfriend. I fear you are doing him a disservice by staying with him when you would easily dump him for someone else...
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reader, hollyrocket613 +, writes (21 September 2011):
Ditch baby dady and ditch the boyfriend. 1. baby daddy clearly isn't making it a point to tell you what his future plans are with his baby momma. 2. you're not being fair to your boyfriend by letting him believe that you want him and only him when in all reality, you picture yourself spending forever with another man. Be fair to all three of you and just let it all go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): He didn't even answer when you asked him about the baby mama. This shows hes probably going to play you both out. Sounds like bad news. Wouldn't want this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2011): If he didn't answer about the baby mama sounds like hes still attached in some way bad news. Doesn't sound like he'll be to serious with you might play you out with baby mama.
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