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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now ...

Which one is better? To love or be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My bf is an egoist person. He always asks me to stay online 24 hours for him. And always said that i must reply his chats. If i late reply 1 or 2 mins, he will get angry. He never allows me to attend someone's call when i chat with him. While he...

My boyfriend is still married, living with his wife and having a baby with her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months is married but seperated and has a baby due anyday now. He lives in another city with his mom and dad and wife. He come to see me when ever he can. So many times I've tried to end it because of the situation but we just ...

I want to get to know this guy better, but I cant leave my boyfriend because of his threats each time I try! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Please help, I don't know what to do. This is a long story and very confusing too. I'm in a relationship for 6 years, on and off. When i said on and off, I meant, i was looking a better different bf. However, my current bf and I fight all the time. ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

My boyfriend calls my best friend names when I am around. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and my best mate(boy) are also best mates. However, my best mate feels like my boyfriend doesn't like him because of the way he acts in front of me because my boy friend calls him names. What should I do?? ...

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

My wife's male friend told her he loved her and she ask me what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - My wife of 8 years with two kids asked me what she should do about her male friend who told her he love her. He said he knows she is married and she can't help him, but he can't stop thinking about her. He loves to talk the whole day with her. ...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

My boyfriend's ex-wife and son are constantly interfering!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Well here goes I guess. The guy I am seeing is perfect for me. I know he feels the same about me. So our problem is his 16 year old son and his ex. She has sent me facebook messages saying she wishes us the best, but then argues about me all the ...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

Don't want to hurt him... but I like someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? I have a really awesome (most of the time) boyfriend (lets call him Rob), and recently I've been thinkin that maybe I like someone else (lets call him Fred). And I think because of Fred I got over Rob. I don't want to hurt Rob, but ...

I've loved him most of my life, now he's engaged and I can't stand to lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I have been friends with my best guy friend since we were 4 years old, we are both now 21. He is recently engaged and they are expecting a baby. I have been in love with him for pretty much my entire life, we had a sexual relationship on ...

I'm in love with 2 boys and don't know who to choose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend, I love him very much, he is really sweet when he wants to be and am quite sure he loves me, he adores me but he is not very understanding. It's hard opening up to him sometimes so I met someone else who ...

Girlfriend's best male friend is an old fling, which makes me way uncomfortable.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have just started seeing a new girl. She has admitted she has never felt this way about anyone in the past, and I feel the same; this is all after only 2 months. My problem is that one of her closest male friends is someone she has slept with in ...

Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...

I chased a loser and lost a winner...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi everybody I came here to vent and maybe someone can help me out. I'm lost and sad. I spent the past 4 and half years chasing after a man who come to find out had a fiancee. I found that out half way through but didn't leave him since he kept ...

I don't understand why he can't just be friends and not anything more than that.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - Well we used to have a casual thing a while ago then that had to stop but a few weeks back we slept together and that's when I told him that I didn't believe he just wanted to be friends after what happened that's when he said "I do want to be ...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

I was fine with my girlfriend being an escort ...but now her proximity to a certain client is really bothering me...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I came across this blog and read a couple of them.I am a boyfriend of a escort, I have been her boyfriend for 6 years, she has been a escort for almost 3 years. I am fine with it, She did it for the bills of course.Now We just came into a situation ...

I need advice to cope with my sexting obsessed boyfriend. How have others coped with this problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend is obsessed with sexting other girls. I have caught him twice doing it with the same girl. He swears that nothing is going on between them, but I find it hard to believe. When I confront him about it he just keeps sayi...

I hate my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Is it wrong to hate a friend of your boyfriend?? Me and this girl have quarreled 4 years now but she is a friend of my boyfriend and she's telling him bs lies. Am I supposed to be her friend no matter how much i hate her??...

Caught in love triangle with current boyfriend and my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hey ok im caught up in a love triangle i mean i love my ex to bits but the guy im with is more like a friend to me but he said he loves me ( new partner ) i dont want to hurt him in any way i just dont know what to do as hes already making plans for ...

Should I leave my job and move back to my hometown in order to get over a bad breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I suffered a horrible breakup about 4 months ago. My ex-boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me and left me for the other woman and moved right in with her. OUCH. I am finding it impossible to deal with in such a small town. I am looking over my shoulder...

If I give my married lover an ultimatum is it likely that she will leave her impotent husband for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 25 year old male, and have been in love for 1 yr with a married woman aged 26. She has been married for 3 years and never had sex with her husband, because her husband is impotent and even denies he has a problem, and considers not having sex ...

Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...

Should I go back to my ex? Or wait to see what happens with the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - well i will start saying for my ex boyfriend who were together for 2 months..we broke up and especially he left me because his feelings for me were friendly..but he asked me if i want to stay friends and i found it okay. We were talking on msn for a ...

Should I be concerned about her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I have been with my girlfriend for three years. We have been seperated twice and I think it's because of her "friend". I broke up with her the first time because I felt that I was a control freak and that she deserved someone better. ...

Should I win her back or let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - So, this girl and I had been datng for a month and in that month everything seemed to be going perfect! I had feelings for her that I hadnt had for my previous girlfriend after 8 months. And then suddenly she missed her ex. Her and her ecx hadnt ...

My ex is trying to sabotage my new relationship & my new bf is backing off. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I have found a new man... all is going great. We went on holiday together and got on well. I posted some pics up of our vacation as I was so happy. Anyway, my ex bf is still on my page, which I totally forgot about. He is now trying to get me back ...

How do I stop comparing him to how he was when we just had a sexual relationship to now being in a real gf/bf relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I have been seeing this guy for a few years but we were both married at the time. Now we are both currently divorced and want to try and make this a "real" relationship. I can't help but feel so insecure and jealous when he says ...

I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it ...

What should I do? What is he trying to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - ive been in a very bad situation n dont khow what to do... ...me and my bf were sitting and talking when he said "would you mind if i tell you somdthing?" and i was like, "say it" and then he told me he likes another beautiful girl ...

I have been patient but think it might be time to run.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Ok...so here’s my story. My girlfriend and I were dating for 2 years when we started to have some problems with our relationship. By the end there was so much pushing and pulling we decided to breakup so we could concentrate on our careers. It ...

Married and have feelings for another man

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I am a married woman. I have been married to the same man for almost 20 years. He loves me with all his heart. He is loyal, a good father to our kids, and he does everything for me. He puts up with me even when I am not nice to him. Any woman would ...

Should I wait for the guy who also likes me or should I just go on with the guy who's been courting me for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi! I have a crush on this certain guy. I liked him since the day we met and it's really getting too complicated because he is my rival in our class standing. Although I can compete rationally without getting my feelings mixed up, when it comes to ...

Text messages lead me to believe she wants her ex boyfriend/casual partner more then me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My fiance and I have been together for over a year. At first, like all relationships, things started off great, we'd text all the time, the sex was regular, we were both affectionate to each other. However, over the last few months, things have cha...

My 2 boyfriends know about each other, but what do I do with both of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - im asking all you pple to plse not judge im not here for that. ok i have 2 bf one is in the uk and one is in sa. i travel between these 2 places alot. they both know about each other and they r cool with it. they have both told me they love me. ...

Choosing between 2 girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue...

I don't know what to do and I feel helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Ok where do I start. Well first off me and my girlfriend have been together for five years. We loved each other very much and helped each other get through very tough times in our life. She has always dealt with bouts depression and I have helped ...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

I've been asked to participate in a threesome but have conflicting feelings about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this. Should I do it...

I find myself falling for a man who already has a girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am 45, recently divorced and redundant. Due to all these reasons I have been fairly depressed. I recently met a 37 year old guy at a party socially who befriended me and showed me a lot of sympathy. He also seems attracted to me. As a result I ...

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he ...

Is it unreasonable for me to expect my boyfriend to be over it by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he is very lovely and we are happy together. in the first stages of our relationship i "cheated" on him with this guy we'll call Harry. By "cheated" i mean we used to email eachother all the time, ...

I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy I have liked for months from my phone and started texting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy i have liked for months from my phone and started texting him Anyway ive liked him for a few months but have never said anything as i do actually think hes to good for me, we have tho ...