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writes: So, this girl and I had been datng for a month and in that month everything seemed to be going perfect! I had feelings for her that I hadnt had for my previous girlfriend after 8 months. And then suddenly she missed her ex. Her and her ecx hadnt been dating a month when I sort of stole her from him. She broke up with him for me because I was a better guy for her. But now she misses him and still wants me. I recently broke up with her to give her time to let her come to a decision. But I want to have some advice as to what I should do. She also wants me to be her friend still if she chooses him. Should I just leave and move on, or what should I say to win her back. I really do not want to loose her but if letting her go is the best thing to do I am willing to do it. So just please mail me back when you can, thanks.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 January 2011):
Do not take her back. At all. She has no idea about what she wants, and that means that you'll wind up scorched.
You had been dating for one month before she realized she missed her ex. That means she's not over her ex. That means not matter what you do, she'll still fancy the guy before you.
I've been through this exact thing. And it's a waste of time to bother chasing (a big waste of time). When you choose a woman in the future, choose only one that is stable and knows what she wants. Those who go back to their ex's just aren't worth the hassle, because they will hurt you again.
You'll do what I did, which was meet someone far better and more secure.
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