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Should I be concerned about her friend?

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Question - (25 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2011)
A male Canada age 30-35, *nthony04 writes:

Hey everyone.

I have been with my girlfriend for three years. We have been seperated twice and I think it's because of her "friend". I broke up with her the first time because I felt that I was a control freak and that she deserved someone better. The second time she broke up with me because she thinks I changed for the wrong reasons and she didn't approve. We were back together and suddenly I think that she's cheating on me. She keeps hanging out with this particular friend that is a guy very often. Apparently, she goes to the movies with him and she hangs out with him more than with me. I have spoken to her about this issue and she claims that he's gay but I don't entirely buy that. They always study together in the morning and he always buys her merchandises and they always hug each other. I love my girlfriend but I don't think she feels the same way about me. I also heard that her "gay friend" suggested to her to break up with me because of the way I was acting. Did he do this because he wants to be with her or am I over-analyzing? Yes, I am jealous but it's only because I care about her.

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A female reader, iicandyxoxo Canada +, writes (26 January 2011):

iicandyxoxo agony auntTry talking to her about it again?.

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A male reader, fitttboyyy14 United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2011):

i get were your coming from mate but youve gotta stop being so jealous because my girlfriend hugs and hangs out with guys but she still loves me and ask here if she loves you an if she dont she donst then just brake up with her its not a big deal shes only a girl.....

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