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writes:well i will start saying for my ex boyfriend who were together for 2 months..we broke up and especially he left me because his feelings for me were friendly..but he asked me if i want to stay friends and i found it okay. We were talking on msn for a long time. But the last week while we were talking he started saying me that he wants back a person that has been hurted by him and he is afraid if that person doesnt trust him anymore! i knew that all these were connotations for me..my best friend who are in the same school with him told me that he was asking for me. Well after these he asked me to go out and i accepted. In our first date after so long time i wanted to be a little late and the tram took a long time to come. I sent him a message that i will be a little late because of the traffic. When i went to the cafeteria where we had date he wasnt there. I called him once he didnt answer..i called him twice he didnt answer again..the third time he answered and i asked him why he didnt come, and he told me that he was sick because the previous day he went out. That was a lie because he could have called me or sent me a message that he couldnt come. That night he apologised of this matter on msn.After this i wasnt talking to him a lot and neither did he.My best friend told me that he liked other 3 girls with me. Today she talked with him and he told her that he wants me and he wants to go out with me, but he is afraid if i will refuse. But my problem isnt that. I like a boy in my school..i added him on facebook and my friend who has talked with him, he told him about me and he finds me good.He is one year younger than me. We talked on facebook and he wanted to meet me. We spoke the next day on school. But doesnt greet me at all, I always greet him first. My friend told me that he was looking into my class for somebody, but his friend who we are classmates that day didnt come. My friend told me that maybe he is too shy..but i dont think so.Well my problem is that i dont know what to do..should i return to my ex? or waiting for my new flirt to move on? how could i know who i really want?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you a lot about ur advices..i dont know..i am so confused..on the one hand if i return to my ex,the guy from my school maybe will come and make a move..in the other hand if i will not return to my ex and waiting for the guy to make a move,he maybe will not make and i wont be with nobody..my problem is that i dont know if the guy wants me and he doesnt show it to me because he is shy..! i want both of them :( HELPP :(
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reader, pontikoulina18 +, writes (26 January 2011):
 hey girl:) im from greece too:) anywayz..i think u should make a fresh start:) this guy is obviously immature...u need a really nice person,who loves u and doesnt play with u & ur feelings:):)
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reader, RealGirlNextDoor  +, writes (26 January 2011):
First, I think you should figure out what kind of feelings you have towards each guy. The first one seems as though he doesn't know what he wants, and he seems slightly cocky, seeing as he has other girls and can't make a proper decision. Also, any relationship that has lies can never be good, whether it's a friend or a partner. You should also ask yourself, if he saw you as a friend before, what has changed now? Does he just want to go out with you because he thinks you're not interested in him now, or because he truly likes you?Sometimes a fresh start is a good idea, I speak from experience.
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