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I don't understand why he can't just be friends and not anything more than that.

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Question - (27 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2011)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Well we used to have a casual thing a while ago then that had to stop but a few weeks back we slept together and that's when I told him that I didn't believe he just wanted to be friends after what happened that's when he said "I do want to be friends but I can't say no to you lol"

He came on to me so it's not like I seduced him and he couldn't say "no".

We were online and he said "I do want to be just friends but I can't say no to you lol" I said "why? I'm not that great" he said "you are"

He has a girlfriend now, he was single when that event happened but he said I can't say no to you 2 days ago. I told him we can only be friends because he's with her now and that's when he said it.

I know the obvious thing people will say "he's looking to cheat" i get that but i don't understand why he can't just be friends and not anything more than that.

If we see each other, and he hugs me like friends do he can't seem to just leave it at that, he tried to kiss me on one occasion. I don't know if he just can't be friends with women or something?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

He used you,he got what he was after,and it wasnt friendship. You are hoping it will develope,but it doesnt look like it ever will so do yourself justice and learn from it.

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