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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going ...

My ex will be there at my sister's wedding because my brother-in-law is vaguely related to him but I don't want to speak to him, or even breathe the same air as him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hi! I just wanted other people's viewpoint on this problem. I have been split from my ex for four years now. He treated me badly, used me for money and cheated on me. It took me a very long time to pick myself back up again after everything he put ...

Should I talk to my ex and tell him I'm sorry for my part in the break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I broke up with my long term boyfriend a few months ago. At the time, to me it seemed like the only thing to do. This was because he seemed increasingly disinterested and distant with me. I think it was because I made myself too available to him. I ...

Boyfriend said all his exs were better looking than me +im not beauty queen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 7years and when we first started dating he made me feel so sexy and desired I knew that his past gfs had been skinny and stuff and everyone said I wasn't his type he likes barbies but we ended up together and he ...

Why would my ex ditch someone he was talking to just to follow me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - one day about a month ago, i went to the supermarket (where my ex works), he was standing outside sort of on the side of the supermarket where the 2nd doors were, near the ramp, talking to some woman, i decided to walk past him to the doors coz the ...

I'm in love with my fiance but dreaming of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I keep dreaming of my ex, in a very sexual way, but I'm engaged! He was my first love, and we dated...7 years ago, we're still friends (we only talk once in a blue moon though), and I have absolutely no feelings for him other than friendship! I'm ...

I'm pregnant, b/f on other side of the world and I'm worried he's seeing his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys...i am desperate... I am with my boyfriend for a year now and we love eachother alot although we had problems in the start as he had a girlfriend when we met and had to break up with her. Well we fell so deeply in love that 2 months a...

Ex is coming in and out of my life. How do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Ok so im needing some advice my ex of four months came back into the picture saying how much he missed me. We hung out for a few weeks and things were going great i didn't bring up the past just went with the flow. Now he.isn't taking my calls and i ...

He blames me for all of our relationship troubles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Well here goes it all started in march 2011 I met this truly wonderful guy well at least at that time I thought he was. we first slept together when I was 17 then by june of that year we split up I saw a dramatic change in him. he was very bad temp...

I want to know how can I get back with my ex or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me in september last year, before that we'd been going out for about a year and a half. She'd broken up with me once before that, but we got back together less than a week later, and we spent the time apart talking and acting ...

My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and ...

Should I believe my girlfriend when she says she 'loves me forever'? I'm worried she is still in love with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My gf says she loves me 'forever' LOL, not sure if i should believe it or not. Reason i ask is beacuse she just got out of a 4 year relationship, APROX 1 YEAR AGO, and we got togather about 7 months ago, she thinks her ex was just a lust ...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

Why do I feel guilty about moving on from my abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I will give you guys a back drop story first. i was in a relationship for about 1.5 years. This was my first intense romantic relationship. i loved this girl (i am a lesbian) with everything. no inhibitions nothing to stop me. As time passed, we ...

I'm in love with my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 May 2012 (?) - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...

How can I forget about my ex and move on? How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My ex and I dated for six months, and broke up one year ago. Although I liked him a lot, he was a horrible communicator and wasn't sweet enough. He showed his love through actions such as making me lunch or helping me out with things. But he was a ...

My best friend and my ex got together, but he wants me back! Would it ever be the same? Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Okay so I dated this guy for almost a year and 4 months, but right around Christmas times things got a little awful. We had never really argued but a few times in our entire relationship, and we broke up once before. Christmas time we broke up again ...

Still being judged for an affair 12 years later

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - 12 yrs ago I had an affair with a married man which resulted in his divorcing his wife and leaving their 3 teenage children. A yr later he and I married and have been happily married ever since. His ex wife continues to call me an adulterer and has ...

Can friends with benefits work ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Can Friends with benefits with an ex work ? Me and my ex started seeing each other last november. We did alot for the 2 months we was together. Met his family his friends he met mine. We all got along. He suffered with migraines and had ...

I know I should give her space but I just cant let her go! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - We were together for two years and known eachother for twenty. The anticipation built up and we didn't even know until we finally got together. We were so in love like nothing imaginable. Going to get married have kids the whole nine. I screwed up ...

I broke up with him in a moment of anger and now I want him back, how do I make him understand I want to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hi,i was wondering if anyone could help me. Ive been in a long distance relationship for two years now, everything was great, were in love and then one night we got inna fight and after he apoligized to me he starting to be a real *dick over the ...

Am I still I love with my ex? How do I get those old feeling to go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - In the past year I've started seeing a boy that my family and peers looked down upon. They hated his guts. But I loved everything about this guy. He had all the qualities i was looking for. When we met I wasnt looking for love. I stumbled upon him. ...

Ex doesn't want to have sex with me because he's afraid he will develop feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - On another note, Im a junior and my ex is a college freshman. Me and my ex were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off and went with some other guy out of revenge for the way he treated me in the relationship. He would always be smoking ...

Do I send him a nasty letter or completely ignore him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, well the last couple of days have been traumatic for me to say the least, we had finished the relationship and i was doing fine, i text him to say basically do what you have to do but dont include me. He then said I had his motivati...

My boyfriend's ex is a super model while I'm fat and ugly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - my boyfriend's ex is a super model. she is drop dead gorgeous with a perfect body. they broke some 2.5 years ago due to some misunderstandings. they really loved each other, ive seen their letters in his bag once. my boyfriend and i have been ...

Is it possible for him to actually love me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - My story is kind of long so I´ll try to be quick...I moved up to New York when I was about 9 and lived up there for roughly about 9 years, when I was 13 I met this guy named A (there´s another guy this A) and well it was puppy love I guess and we ...

The girl I like is friends with both my ex girlfriends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - There is a girl that I really like, and I've known her for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. The problem is, is that she is good friends with my ex, and even more strangely, recently friends with my other ex? How should I approac...

B/f blocked me because I complained about his activity with ex on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i hve been in a long distance relationshp for 6months now things have been ohkay but recently we fight a lot over his ex galfriend who calls now and than,and i told my bf that i hate it when the ex calls,he said he cant tel someone ...

Drunk, hooker and emails to exes (

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I've engaged for 3 years, planning to married soon around this year. We have up and down relationship, as we have different culture (I'm Asian/Indonesian and he's an Australian), but so far, we're trying to get it through. 2days ago, i call...

My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on ...

Can I be friends with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I started speaking again 5 months ago, after over a year of no contact after we broke up. We're extremely close and neither of us have the desire to get back together (although I wouldn't say those feelings have completely died ...

Wife and I have been married 10 years. Should we throw out photos of our exs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for over 10 years but have just had some old possessions dropped off at our house by our parents / parents in law. Funny timing that they all dropped off boxes at about the same time. A lot of this is stuff fr...

Does my ex want me and his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - What s.the.deal with his ex?? My ex and I split up 6 mts ago we have 2 young kids. He is in his forties me in my thirties. He moved out and bought a flat. Recently.he has been bombarding me with messages saying he loves me misses me, trys to let ...

Why would my b/f be happy if his ex had been pregnant but not me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My fiance and I were talking and the topic about babies came up. I would like to have a child soon, but he wants to wait. However, few months back when we were just dating and not engaged, his ex-gf had a prgnancy scare and it would have been his ...

I want to date my friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I like my friends ex boyfriend they broke up a week ago and I want him to notice me but it's hard because he is still into her what do I do if she moved on and I want him to move on and date me...

My ex has turned her back on everyone, what's up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - So my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me 4 weeks ago. The weekend before we had been on a nice weekend trip, everything was fine. She had moved here from another state with her best friend (another girl) and we almost instantly started dating. ...

How can I get him to stop contacting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - About two years ago I was in an abusive relationship. It ended badly, he ended up cheating on me and having sex with another woman. Eventually I snapped out of it and understood that there wasn't anything more here for me and got out of it. He n...

He kept naked pictures of his ex in an old phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly two years now. Today I came home and was going through our old cell phones so I could clean up our desk. I came across one, that belonged to him, I was erasing contacts, pics, videos and whatnot.... Well ...

Does my ex still care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend some time ago, but I cant forget him since I loved him so much. We always had such a extraordinary connection, the kind that he even knew when something was wrong with me and we would know when we were both thinking...

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex. My ex and I dated for one year and broke up 15 months ago. I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 4 months. My emotions are clear yet they confuse me. I'm in love with my boy...

I cant imagine life without my girlfriend yet I'm unable to forget my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we are very much in love however, for the past 2 years I have found myself feeling slightly depressed over my previous relationship. I still love my ex, I think about her constantly and if I ...

This guy is trying to destroy my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Hello people I have a really big problem that has been stressing me out lately. My girlfriend has recently gotten a job but all of her friends are guys and I am ok with that but the real problem is that every single one of them tries to have he...

I found out I got clamydia and my new b/f thinks I cheated but I got it from my cheating ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - hello everyone ... 5 months ago my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up ... about a month and half ago i started dating someone new .. well the problem is i just had a check up and i was told that i have clamydia ... i must of caught it from m...

My fiance has x rated photos of his ex on his computer. He promised to delete them but never has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I am engaged to a man that I love very much and on a day-to day basis treats me very well. About 6 months ago, I was updating and "weeding" out some computer files, when I discovered that he was had hundreds of photos of his ex wife. I think it ...

Should I have some fun with this guy or wait and see if my ex comes back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - so i have a question, i'm not a very good looking person, put frankly, i have never and don't ever get much male attention at all, the only male attention i recieve is off fat and ugly guys(i know that sounds bad, looks shouldn't matter, but if it's ...

I think my ex hacked into my facebook account

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - what would you do? hello im 30 and my ex girlfriend is 26 we've got 2 kids. we live together. and for years we've not been close since the birth of our first child. and this year after years of unhappy r/ship we split up. we desided for the ...

My ex didn't seem to care so why did he send a message after our breakup acting like he cared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone! Last Sunday, I broke up with my "boyfriend" of 2 months. We are both on an exchange student programme in Europe, so we both live away from our countries (I come from Greece, he comes from Spain), me for 6 months, and he is here f...

Ex bf in contact and wants to go out. Should I be hopeful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I posted here a while ago regarding a break up with my bf of almost 3 years. This happened about 3 weeks ago. When he broke up with me he said he didn't feel the same way anymore. Anyway so I have been super strong and have not contacte...

Recovering alcoholic ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - hi. i was with my ex for just over four years, we have a daughter together. we have been split up for nearly 7 months. he is a recovering alcoholic, and he is desperate to get back with me, thing is im scared wot if we get back together and he s...