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female
age
30-35,
*enshikoneko
writes:About two years ago I was in an abusive relationship. It ended badly, he ended up cheating on me and having sex with another woman. Eventually I snapped out of it and understood that there wasn't anything more here for me and got out of it. He now lives in America far from where I live. However, he has not stopped trying to contact me. First it was, wanting to say ‘good bye’ properly, then it was wanting to be ‘friends’, then last time he outwardly said he would not stop trying to contact me because he still ‘loves’ me. I don't believe him for a second, quite honestly. I have no interest in going back there I have made this very clear. But he doesn't seem to understand and won't give up.Everything I do is making it worse. If I talk to him, it gets his hopes up and he tries harder. If I don’t talk to him he does it anyways. My phone has been ringing constantly for the last half hour. It’s him. I’m not picking up, I can’t. That just gives him another way to contact me after I changed my emails, msn, blocked him from various sites and inevitablity had to stop talking to certain friends because they would not stop passing messages for him.
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reader, KittieS +, writes (26 May 2012):
 Ok - talk to the police, get his number barred.
Change your phone number (guessing its your mobile) nightmare but you tell all your friends.
Friends who pass messages are Not Friends.
DO NOT REPLY TO HIM EVER
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reader, N91 +, writes (25 May 2012):
 If your phone is the only way that he can contact you, then call your network provider and get his number blocked, what he is doing is harrassment. You've told him you don't want to be contacted but he persists.
If you're really serious about it, you could inform the police that you're being harrassed.
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