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writes:Okay so I dated this guy for almost a year and 4 months, but right around Christmas times things got a little awful. We had never really argued but a few times in our entire relationship, and we broke up once before. Christmas time we broke up again and 2 more times after that. I have a friend who likes to get with all my exes, and it usually doesn't bother me but now it did. She was telling me that she liked him and whatever and she wanted him. She tried to break us up before and we did and he asked for her number. Well this time he asked for her number again and She is the type of girl that sleeps with guys as a one night stand type of thing she doesn't like relationships and when shes in one she cheats on the guy. Well i got extremely angry and I said you deserve her cause shes just going to cheat on you anyway so be with her, and he told em i really don't want to be with her but i want you so if this is going to make you jealous okay, So he asked her out. This made me extremely mad cause she always threw him in my face, saying that i got your man and she even tried to fight me.So i told him to delete my number and everything, adn when he was with her he told me that he still loves me and he misses me and all While he was with me he told me he was a virgin and i was the best thing that ever happened to him but when he dated her she asked him if i was a good gf and he said sometimes and he asked her to talk dirty to him and said that he has had sex twice before and when i asked him he said he lied to her not me, that he misses me and wants to be with me and he made a mistake being with her but yet he continued to date her. I stopped talking to him and her and I accidentally sent him the wrong message and he replied saying he missed me and he broke up with her. And I was just like i don't care and he asked if we could be friends and I said okay and he said is it okay if maybe it could be something more eventually and i couldn't answer that, Should i give him another chance, i just feel like that was the ultimate betrayal, she was my best friend and I don't think i could trust him, even after all that he says he never really did anything wrong? The relationship would never be the same. should i just move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012): Hi,This guy is playing games with you. He does not love you. Playing hurtful games with someone by making them jealous,dating their friend is extremely childish and immature and another sign that he has no business being anybodys boyfriend. Tell him this. Tell him a guy who dates his girlfriends friend to make her jealous has no business being anybodys boyfriend and you want a real guy, who knows what hes got and doesnt play games. This will put him in his place.I think that you are better off without him and no you cannot be friends with him either. This never works. Why would you even want to be friends with someone who went out of their way to hurt you and make you jealous? Do you not think you deserve better?I would date someone else and ignore this ex of yours. He is a messer and has alot of growing up to do to deserve a relationship.
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