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writes:Hello people I have a really big problem that has been stressing me out lately. My girlfriend has recently gotten a job but all of her friends are guys and I am ok with that but the real problem is that every single one of them tries to have her even though the know she is taken but my problem is with one certain guy who is constantly trying to sleep with her I mean constantly everytime they talk or text he would always say one say he will have her or that she never knows what could happen and he can sleep with her. He wants her to move in with him behind my back and doesn't want to meet me at all whatsoever and all of her other guy friends are scared to see me but respect my girlfriend enough not try anything with her mainly to avoid confrontation with me. But this guy was in jail and is a registered sex offender and I am worried that something might happen and I really want to tell this guy off or something I have a bad gut feeling and I am usually right about people but my girlfriend thinks she can do as she pleases since she grew up like that she has no sense of authority and if I get mad it won't matter I love her dearly and care for I just don't want her to et hurt in anyway but she thinks I am just tryin to deprive her of happiness and fun where is the fun in having a guy friend who is trying to destory our relationship just because he wants to have a physical relations? Please help!
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (25 May 2012):
 Im not normally one to tell someone to make an ultimatum, but here goes. I think u need to firstly tell ur gf she has a choice. to either tell this guy to back of, stop hitting on her and leave her alone, or, its over. It sounds to me like she's loving the attention this other guy is giving her. so she is not going to stop talking to him. So tell er stop contact with this guy or its over . Xx good luck and let us know how it goes.
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (24 May 2012):
 Sorry to say, but it sounds like the problem has more to do with your girlfriend rather than the guy. Think about it. . . SHE gave him her number. SHE let's him text her all the time about getting with him. SHE defends him when you clearly object to his behaviour. SHE allows this to continue. If she didn't want his attention, he would have never became this much of a problem. Sounds to me like you need a new girlfriend.
You're the only victim here. She's enjoying the attention from both of you. Grow a pair and tell her to hit the road.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (24 May 2012):
 This is pretty common in the workplace, I flirted with pretty much every girl I worked with, but was only looking at my GF.
So I wouldnt read too much into it, they are just having a laugh.
As for this guy, yes thats too far. Confront him. Make it clear you dont like him.
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