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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My girlfriend sexually fantasizes about one of her ex partners.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hello, I'm a 25 year old male. I've been dating this girl for the past 3 months and things have been going great. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic as well. Yesterday, I was on her computer looking something up and I ended up looking at her h...

Its been 5 years and I'm still not over my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - After 5 years I am still not over my ex. I miss her like nothing else and it's eating me alive: I have had heavy depressions over this. She was the womkan of my dreams. We always stayed somewhat in contact until a year ago I cut of all contact: ...

Why is he in touch and how do I handle this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi, so my first proper boyfriend from 8 years ago, we dated about 1.5 years back then. We bumped into each other about 5 years ago or something, said hey yadi ya as you do. But every so randomly he sends hello's on facebook. We're not f...

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

He seemed to have completely moved on just one day after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've broke up with my ex of 5months... before that we are loving couple;he loved me,respects me,he covered and put up with my flaws... problem we had was that we argue too often..mostly about loyalty,trust and cheating I love him but I always do...

I still have feelings for my ex which I know are unhealthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi everyone I am in a dilemma right now because I just realized I still got some feelings for my ex which I know is not healthy. Me and her rarely see each other again even though we are in the same town. It is really weird that I still have ...

Will I ever have a chance with my ex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - well my ex (tom) is my one of my 2 best friends (we broke up 2 and a half year ago when we were only 16). I was with another guy for more then one year but one and a half months ago we broke up...after that tom acted really flirty sometimes and we ...

Sick of thinking about my ex....where the hell do you meet people these days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - im finding myself in a trap that i cant get myself out of it. i spilt up with my boyfriend 4 months ago and i know deep down it was the right thing to do, even though he was a lovely man he just didnt want the same things as me and didnt want to ...

How do I avoid becoming single and friendless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Two years ago, I ended an unhealthy relationship. My ex and I had been together for four years, but we fought a lot and our interactions got ugly, so I haven't looked back. My problem is that since that time, I haven't been able to meet any men. ...

He still stares at me. Does my ex like me still?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - So, my boyfriend (ex) broke up with me, I still really like him sometimes I catch him staring at me during school, (I'm 15) I want to find out if he still likes me. any ideas how? please help me....

How can I get him back? What happened to our relationship? PLEASE HELP

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were taking a break and I found out he was talking to this new girl who lived in another state that he had never met, and I got so jealous. They skyped all night and were playing truth or dare...and you can guess what happens when a boy ...

Have a new girlfriend, but stilll miss my ex so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Is it normal to think about your ex, but being with someone new? I dated my ex over a year ago and I broke it off. A year after our break up, she had already a boyfriend for six months, and still called me. We started meeting up regularly , havi...

I know I won't go back to him but I can't get over my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4745 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Okay, so a couple of months ago i started seeing this guy (lets call him dave). I have known him for years, but didn't see him since i was about 10, 7 years later we met up and it went from there. I really did like him a lot, but he had this dream ...

How do I find out if it is my ex who is calling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I'm getting the impression that a guy I used to date who's now in a relationship has been calling me with blocked numbers. I got one the other day at 230 am. I want to ask him bc in the past I had a feeling then that similar calls would come from ...

Help me interpret these men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4746 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - My bf broke up with me about two months ago, he said that he thinks we are just better off as friends. He recently starting talking to me again and told me that he still really wants to be my friend and so we started hanging out more. Last time i ...

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - i started dating my current (and first) boyfriend 7 months ago and everything's great - we love each other a lot, rarely fight, etc. issues started coming up however when i found out that he lied about several random and unimportant thin...

Sleeping with an EX who is with someone else... Do I go for it or no

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Okay so here is my problem. Ive been sleeping with my ex boyfriend (we will call him Chad) but chad is kind of still with his Baby mama. I am 19 years old and we havnt dated since I was around 15. When we was in jail we wrote n we decided we would ...

What to do about his ex over the holidays?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - We're just hitting our one yr mark and he's going to be on holiday visiting family. His ex of 15 yrs and FWB up until we started dating lives near his family. They have always visited and/or hooked up over the holidays. I'm scared to death his ...

Could he still be pining for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I have been single for a while and have decided to set up a dating profile, while I was browsing the guys profiles I noticed an ex of mine had a profile on there, when i looked at his ideal date he had described me.. right down to hair colour and ...

Was low self esteem a factor in the demise of these relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hello guys :) I would really appreciate some insight on an issue! In the past 3 years (basically since I started dating), I've been badly hurt by 2 men. I was involved with each of them for around a year, so they wasn't exactly short-term r...

The ex? or my current b/f who's going over seas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I seem to have gotten myself into a bit of love trouble. I was dating someone long distance when I met, well, someone else. My boyfriend and I hadn't been getting along - he said he loved me, but he would be controlling and jealous and say ...

Once upon a time he really loved me and wanted to be with me forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some help. I'm really confused. We broke up on October 30th, and a week after that we started talking again, and tried to work it out, but then things just crashed and suddenly he was all bitter, and told me we weren't friends ...

Should I give the guy from my past another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - it's been three months since i split with my ex bf of 1yr 3months ( he was cheating on me). since then i've been asked out by 4 guys who really want long term relationship with me but i said no.. however recenetly a guy from my past came back.....

Boyfriend lies to me about contact with his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year. He claims that his ex-lover is just a friend. Although he has only just admitted that they used to sleep together. Even though he had told me that they had never been intimate like that, i had ...

Does his comment actually mean anything because of ellipses in it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I invited an old flame out for a coffee next time he was up near where I lived. I didn't get a response until he accidentially posted a comment on my status page on facebook which was meant for someone else. I private messaged him the next day to ...

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me two months ago and he's already seeing someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My ex dumped me barely two months ago. I am still in love with him, but have just found out that he is going to ask another girl out, and that he has found someone else. It felt like my heart just got broken again. How do I move past this? ...

My former friend with benefits is knocking at my door!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi everybody my fwb and I have just recently broke it off we agreed not to see anyone alse I was fine with that as I never wanted anyoone else and so was he. now all of a sudden he has broke it off with me and accused me of seeing someone else whe...

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me, but I'm having a hard time getting over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My ex bf and I have been broken up for about a month now. We were together for three years and I broke up with him because he cheated on me one night he was out at a party. I have not spoken to him since we broke up. I made it clear to him that we ...

My ex has been in touch but hasn't even hinted about another date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So recently I got back with my ex after breaking up for 2 months(he brought that up). Everything looks ok. But every time it's me who texted him(partly because he wants me to express my feelings more and that's part of the reason why we broke up ...

Why is he flirting with me, his ex, when he makes out with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - if a guy would just have started a new relationship would he still be friends with his ex because she was also friends with him when she was in a relationship? also would he be flirting and try to deny the relationship? my ex makes out with a girl ...

I'm tired of everyone saying how much my son looks like his dad, my ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Not sure if anyone can help but I have a 17 month old little boy, I split from his dad 9 months ago after he cheated on me with my friend. My ex doesn't bother with my little boy. I have had a tough time has you can imagine and it is fair to say ...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

Why my ex is rude to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I've been together with my ex for 1.5 year and it was the very first serious love for both of us. He broke up with me because he said it was too serious right now and he doesn't know what is gonna be in the future...he's now in a relationship with ...

How do I convince my ex that his online relationship counts as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I found out my boyfriend was cheating emotionally with this girl who lives on the opposite side of the country. But they skyped together so to me that distance doesnt mean anything. I sent him a text telling him I knew about his relation...

Can my ex take me to court and get custody of our son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I need some advice. When I was four months pregnant I left my son's biological father because he forced himself on me sexually and used to hit me. After we split I tried to be civil with him for our son's sake. Well sometime later we got into a big ...

No matter how much I ignore him I cant get over him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex who dumped me 3 months ago. I have to see him every day, and I cannot seem to get over him. He turned his emotions off like a switch and just wanted to be friends. I said no, I needed time to not talk. And we havn't ...

I miss him terribly, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Today would be my ex and I's one year 4 month anniversary and I miss him horribly. He has said he still loves me, but doesn't like me, to his best friend, who is also a very close friend of mine. How can I get him back? ...

I feel as though he is just using me but I want to make things work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Should i move on? ignore it? or just go with the flow? here's the situation.. My boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 years (on and off) during the time that we broke up we had other partners but it did'nt last long because we real...

His flirtatious behaviour and sexual conversations with other girls really hurts me. Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - First of all, I'd like to thank anyone who takes the time to read my question in advance. You see, there is this guy, my ex. We dated for 6 months and had a relationship that was all I had ever wanted. He was honest, caring, understanding and just ...

Do you think he even cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - It all started when we started dating in January, I found out he was friends with this girl named Janai. She would call him Joshiebear, write little “cute” posts on his wall everyday, saying she loved him and asking when he would come visit her. I ...

Is it possible to love someone you don't have (on paper) a lot in common with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I'm 23 and just need a bit of an unbiased ear. I'll try to keep this short but basically in August I asked my guy friend out. He had been single for 6 years and me for 3, we'd v=been flatmates for a year and although very different, grew ...

He called it off, but now contacts me. What does he want??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - So ive been going out with my bf for almost two months and a couple of weeks ago he broke things off with me. He said that he thinks we are better off friends, but since then he has been texting me all day and will invite me over to his house. And ...

Why does my girlfriend insist on including her ex boyfriend in everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - My problem is simple: I hate that my girlfriend is friends with her ex boyfriend. They were together for 5 years and I understand how that's important and that they learned a lot from each other, and I've reached a point where I'm actually okay with ...

Should I act like I'm interested in my ex girlfriend at the party tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (M) - Ok I would like to first thank everyone who read my question and I definetely appreciate your time to read about my problems. It means alot. Ok so I recently decided to go in on a partnership on a party that my brother and nephew are throwing ...

His new girlfriend is always telling me they are getting married, so why is my ex calling me from prison telling me he misses me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and ...

Bumped into a guy I used to date and he wanted me to go back to his flat, is he still interested and in what way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Ok, so yesterday, i bumped into this guy that i used to be seeing , and he wanted me to go back to his flat with him to reminisce, as he put it. I couldn't go, unfortunately, as i had already made other plans, but i'm hoping i'll bump into him again ...

Together 9 years, had an abortion and he didnt support me...now he moves on after a month!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old. I got preganant in August by my boyffriend of nine years. We started dating in middle school. I have supported him through everything. Every bad or good chocie he has made, I was there. The pregnancy was unplanned and my family ...

I know I won't go back so why I am so upset that my ex has moved on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - i av been on and off for four years with my ex boyfriend. he cheated on me and was foreva on dating sites. this time he has met someone off a dating site and simply moved on. he treated me terrible,but now he has someone i feel angry. i know i wont ...