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writes:Okay so my ex and I broke up about 8 months ago since then he got a new girlfriend and they have been dating for 8 months now she 17 and he's 21. Everytime I see her all she does is brag about him infront of me and try's gives me attitude and supposedly they are getting married her parents are letting them since they knew each other since they were little. But the the thing is he is in jail and he recently called me from there saying that he misses me and can't wait to see me and get back to the old days also to remember what we once had. So I'm just wondering if their getting married why in the he'll is he calling me saying all this stuff ? Is she Lieing or is he just trying to cheat on her with me ? I feel bad for her because she sees him as a god and they only been dating for 8months do you think he's just talking her up cause he locked up or is he just marring her because if he doesn't get out she can go there and do stuff with him ?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 November 2011):
 She's 17! Easily influenced, of course she sees him as a God, and with absolutely no adult experience she buys everything he says as well as owns no perspective. Which is why to HER, getting married after 8 months to a jail bird is super duper.
You know better. Let her live fantasy land, thats her problem and she's no friend of yours. If you get tired of her rubbing it in your face just mention that he called you and said he misses you. The reason she brags so much about him is because, surprise surprise, she isn't as secure in the relationship as she'd like to be and sees you as a threat. Insecure women with no foundation in life or perspective often fall to blaming the other woman, and not the cheater of a boyfriend they have. So that doesn't come as a shocker.
Your ex is a loser. And yes, sounds like he is planning to cheat, if he hasn't already. He is trying to string you both along, so he can have the little girly 17-year old and you as a side snack.
Just be happy he is an ex and NOT your problem, but hers! Lets hope she gets a wake-up call soon before she throws her life away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): This guy is in prison. Sorry but if My Teen was Dating such a man, I'd kick her backside before knocking some sense into her. She should in the heck know better to date such a young man.My teens don't even give consideration to a young man if he smokes, drinks, or does drugs. Does not have a job and does not go to school.I don't even have to read further. He's untrustworthy.Honest, worthwhile men keep themselves busy with a full time job that provides an honest means of living. And would not do anything stupid to land themselves in jail.Also, if he is calling you and talking about getting back into your pants- you are okay with that?Hi, its me, the sorry sack loser you once loved and shouldn't have because you deserve better. I have this other gal on the side but want back into your pants. You okay with that? Good. Because that is all you are and she is to me.Why do you even care?Don't accept his calls. Tell her he has called you. Then walk away from the both of them. Drama is so junior high.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 November 2011):
Because he's a liar who's playing everyone. He's playing you, and you're allowing it because you're not cutting contact. If I were you, I'd stop taking his calls and move on. There's a reason he's a jailbird and a reason he's trying to cheat. It's because he's not worthy of anyone's time.
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