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writes:I've been together with my ex for 1.5 year and it was the very first serious love for both of us. He broke up with me because he said it was too serious right now and he doesn't know what is gonna be in the future...he's now in a relationship with another girl, but according to his friends he's not really in love. He just the most sensitive person I've ever met and still trying so hard to show me that he doesn't care at all. He's being rude, telling me he doesn't give a shit about me, he can't even tell me hi when we meet somewhere. He's kinda rude and I don't know why...It was almost a year ago and he still can't behave normally when I'm in the picture :/
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (26 November 2011):
 That is something you're going to have to ask him.
I'm going to take a guess and say he's either immature (one of those guys who can't be friends with their ex's) or he's being rude to assure himself he's over you. But that's just a guess, who knows the real answer? You're probably not going to ever know.
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reader, rebecca92 +, writes (26 November 2011):
rebecca92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd I don't really wanna do anything with him, I just don't understand why it is good for him to be rude...
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reader, rebecca92 +, writes (26 November 2011):
rebecca92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for your answers! :) Yes, I've been trying really hard it's just hard because my best friend is his sister, so he always finds the way to stay in the picture unfortunately...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 November 2011):
Why is he still in the picture when he's your ex? You guys HAD love..now all he has for you is rudeness. That's his problem. If he wants to write you off, then there's nothing you can do about it. Let him fully go.
He's with another girl now, so you need to move on as well.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 November 2011):
 Stop talking to him. Let him be an asshat without you around. If you don't have a choice (as in being a place where he is too, ignore him) don't try and engage him in conversation, simply pretend he isn't there and that his opinion and actions doesn't mean squat to you. (even if they do).
He sounds like an immature dude anyhow. Like the boys in Kindergarten who pulls your braids? cause they like you.
Let him go, he isn't worth being upset over, neither are his opinions.
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