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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:well my ex (tom) is my one of my 2 best friends (we broke up 2 and a half year ago when we were only 16). I was with another guy for more then one year but one and a half months ago we broke up...after that tom acted really flirty sometimes and we write everyday on Facebook but I know he was making our with another girl. although he was still flirty but I had a strange feeling and asked him if there are in a relationship and he said they wanted to give it a try but she knows that we write a lot and that this wouldn't change even if he is in a relationship with her and that he need my friendship to be happy. OK the problemis I'd like tom also as my boyfriend...since I am sure that they won't marry do you think I could have a chance after this relatuonship or do you think I am in his "we are only friends" box already?i also have to say that ever single guy with who I was good friends with fell in love with me (just one but this one is gay)and no I won't mess with their relationship!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 November 2011):
 If you are not going to mess with there relationship well then I guess you just need to forget about this and move forward and accept that he only sees you as a friend and nothing else. Sure he speaks to you everyday, that is because he thinks very highly of you as a friend, and a little flirting when both of you where single is not harmful, but now he is in a relationship this needs to stop. There is no point you waiting around for him to become single again one day, I mean that might be years or maybe even never who knows? So accept that he is a friend and nothing more and be happy for him.
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