A
male
age
30-35,
*3puremage1
writes:Hi everyone I am in a dilemma right now because I just realized I still got some feelings for my ex which I know is not healthy. Me and her rarely see each other again even though we are in the same town. It is really weird that I still have feelings for her. Last time I met her was 4 months ago. Currently, I am in a new school meeting new people but it is very difficult for me to expand my friends' circle since in here; there are barely any girls in my class since the subjects I studied are male dominated. The max number of girls is three. During break time, everyone go back to their own house ( it is common in an independent school) and it is strange to walk in to some other houses. But I did try to expand my circle by joining clubs.There is a girl who I believe is interested in me but she is in the year above and she is leaving next year. I kind of not have the confident to go in a relationship with her. However, the biggest killer is the cultural problem at my school. I am a Chinese but have been educated at the UK for my entire secondary school education so I am also very English person and now the problem is I am in between the British and the Chinese. She is a traditionally Chinese girl and for every meal she seats with the Chinese people only, whereas I have seat with the British in some occasions and some Chinese in some occasion. I really want to seat with her and chat with each other since this is the only chance I can discover more about her and 'test the water'. I feel torn. What could I do??
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (3 December 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your suggestion
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2011):
 If you like her well then go and talk to her, ask her to join you for lunch and see what she says, but do you actually like this girl or is it just a case of you think she likes you so you will go ahead and see if anything can happen. Because you need to remember that she is not your ex. I think you need to stay single for now and concentrate on getting over your ex before you start looking in to getting in to another relationship. Good luck.
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