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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Did I cheat? Am I obligated to tell my wife what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - One night in the first year my wife and I were together we got into a huge fight and we broke up. we wernt married yet. She left my house and went home and at the time I was completely devastated. I went out to an all night grocery store where ...

My ex getting engaged with her one and a half month new guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Hello! I found out that my ex, (we broke up about 3 months ago after a year of beeing together) is getting engaged with her rebound relationship. I could tell even after she broke up with me that she was attracted to me and we kept contact cos ...

Why is my son's father refusing to introduce me to his new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and ...

I'm worried by his behaviour, am I just over-reacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking for a few months...he needs time to get his head together before getting back into things with me. Noone did anything bad, I think he just needs time...not ready to be in a relationship again. The times we talk it seems ...

Should I consider getting back together with him while he's so close with this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I don't really know if I'm looking for advice, or just to see what other people think of this situation, but here goes. I broke up with my boyfriend about two months ago, for various reasons but that is not to say we had a bad relationship. As soon ...

Torn between the 'new guy' and my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I dated this guy for almost two years and we had a rough patch and broke up. During this time i became really close with a guy from work. Now my ex wants to get back together with me and I dont know who i should be with. Im seeing both of them but ...

How do I make him realise just how much I truly miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - ok so me and my ex broke up for good in about november but we had been on and off since june of the same year. no contact between november and early december. he then contacted me and said he is moving a few states away. i was devastated. we hung ...

Why would he stay with me if he misses his ex so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my fiance' for 6 years, have 5 kids. We are going to get married in a few months. I thought we were the most perfect couple. Well anyways back in 09 I found out he was writing his ex through e-mail I never thought he would do that. ...

I am confused and miss my ex but she's moved on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Any advice please?? I was with my gf for 8 months and everything was perfect, we both got on so well and really loved each other. A few months ago she went back to university and i have had to move away for 18 months due to my career. Everythi...

Words of encouragement needed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I feel terrible. Everything's not right. Everything has gone downhill. My grades are suffering. I didnt get into the national team. My love life's awful, I'm single and I miss my ex sometimes. Everything doesnt seem right. Can anyone please give me ...

Jealous and insecure about my boyfriend's sexual past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - This has been bothering me for a very long time now, but im very jealous and insecure of my boyfriend's sexual past. He has been with 17 other girls, and just before we got together slept with an older woman (we are 20 she was 40+) this is what ...

Love Letters to an Ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - OK, let’s be real. Love letters to exes don’t really work, do they? Have they ever worked? I wrote one, but haven't sent it yet. Maybe it will work for me, as I know people who have gotten back with their ex and have had successful relationships ...

Does he sound interested from his text message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Me and my ex split up about a month ago due to lots of arguing and personal issues - we needed space. Two weeks into the break up after no contact between us he tried to reach out to me by texting me asking how I was doing, and I politely told hi...

I don't understand why I feel so needy all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Ever since I ended a relationship two months ago, i've always been feeling vulnerable, especially when at times things don't go right. Why do I feel as though I really need someone? It's a needy feeling. I didnt feel so before knowing that guy. Why ...

I still love my ex, and to make matters worse, I just started a relationship with someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - So, here's one for the record books! It's a bit long, but it's worth reading...you will be amused! I met a girl nearly a year ago. We don't live in the same city, but both of us are professional athletes and we travel around the country a lot fo...

My fiance has sexual pictues and videos of his ex girlfriends.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My fiancé has several sexual videos and pictures taken with past girlfriends. I found them before and we almost broke up. He told me he would get rid of them yet one year later I see by his compter history he has them hidden on a file on his compu...

Spent the night with my ex trying to make my co-worker jealous. Didn't work, and the hickies didn't help either!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - i really like a new coworker of mine and we talk to each other at and after work but i dont think shes very interested in me.i spent a night with an ex girlfriend who gave a few hickies and my coworker thought they were gross.i was trying to make ...

I still have feelings for my womanizing ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - How do i cope with this. Im totally confused about my feeling for my ex. Do i still love him? Dont i? I spent 3 yrs of my life chasing this man it wasnt really a proper relationship but i was besotted with him! We were on off all the time i wanted...

Do you think my ex will get the message to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hello all, if you send a msg to a guy that goes this way: "sorry i am very busy to pick up your calls. I am just around anyway, but it doesn't mean we must keep in touch. hope its fine with you, take care." what would you think he will understa...

Why is a nasty ex still on my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - why do i still think of him? over a year ago ex bf lied about sleepin wit me to his buddies. i found put through a good friend. i spoke to him online about it then cut off all contact. i didnt sleep wit him but i snuck him over to my house and we m...

5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...

Dreaming the same dream about my ex but I HAVE a boyfriend! Why do I keep dreaming about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hey im 19 years old and have recently got with a new partner that ive fallen for pretty hard, he's an amazing guy and totally opposite to my ex. Me and my ex boyfriend were together for 1 year and 7 months, and i think we should of ended the ...

Will he take me back after it has been a few years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - A few years ago I was with this guy. We were so in love and attached to each other. We were both each other's first and we were together almost 2 years. He went away for a bit and the distance tore us apart, when he got back he decided that we ...

Can I be forgiven for cheating? Do I deserve a chance to prove myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - This is what happened, i was with my now ex "Ladge" on and off for 2 years. We split and decided to become friends as we got on so well. We never loved each other but as she had a kid and enjoyed doing sports together we tried to keep a friendship ...

Some help with the 'no contact' rule after a break up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - OK my girlfriend dumped me 3 weeks ago now. We've been going out for 3 years and she's very dear to me. For the first week I was doing nothing but trying to remain in contact with her and making the mistake of begging and pleading with her but with ...

Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met ...

He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away ...

I don't understand why do I still think about my ex and have feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I can't seem to get over my ex and don't know if I should try talking to my ex again. We broke up nine months ago and I still have feelings for him. He broke up with me and said it was because he was going to ruin my life. Its a little complicated ...

Dumped, badly, and now worried about heartbreak again!

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29 March 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. I have just got out of a serious relationship well lets just say the dirt bag left me on the day of my grandma's funeral harsh huh ! there was no warning or anything he just said that morning as I was getting ready to leave, I ...

I'm always the "other woman"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - i am relatively young, and still have a long way to go in my life, but for the most part i am extremely mature for my age. Although i have had alot of life experience, i have never had a real boyfriend.This isnt to say that i dont have experience ...

Should I get back together with the ex I love but don't trust?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hi All, I've been dealing with this decision for some time now.. sometimes I feel I've made up my mind, then I come undone and feel confused again. I was with my ex for 3 years, we had a break as I felt he needed time to sort out his issues. Dur...

Torn...do I take her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have broken up with my gf of nearly a year and a half recently. I'm really struggling to cope even thought I finished with her. I felt stuck in a rut and didnt know what else to do. She was always angry and moody with me and i felt so tense when i ...

Don't tell me to get over her - how do I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Met this girl online over 3 years ago and fell in love. She's perfect for me, the most wonderful girl I've ever met in my life and never have any of my physical relationships before her been as wonderful as my relationship with this girl. We would ...

I feel like I'm holding onto someone who isn't meant to be held on to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in an on and off relationship for a year. i gave up everything for him. i know money doesnt buy happiness but i gave up my ex boyfriend who was in the army and who was doing everything for me, for him. someone who didnt ...

He won't communicate with me and says our relationship is over. Should I just let him go like that, or try to get him to talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - It's a long story but I recently traveled overseas to be with the guy I love for three months so that I could find out once and for all if we were in any way compatible. Yeah, I know, it was crazy, but it was a once in a lifetime opportunity, it was ...

Worried in case I've caught an STD!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little confused here as to what to think. Last weekend i had sex with my ex boyfriend (silly i know, and I'm not proud of it) but it happened and I'm a little worried about STDs. I currently have a boyfriend who I also have an unprotected ...

How long is too long to try getting back with somebody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - How long is too long to try getting back with somebody? I broke up with my ex-boyfriend in March 2009 and recently I've been wanting to try and get him back. It was a long distance relationship and I don't think I was mature enough at the time to ...

Do EX's change?

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28 March 2010 (F) - I am 28, my ex-boyfriend is 30. We had been together for 4 years and have been apart for one year. The reason why we broke up was that I couldn't take the stress anymore from not trusting him. After two years we were together, he cheated on me; n...

My ex girlfriend asked me if I would ever have a threesome!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - ok so as the title says, my ex girl friend asked me if i would ever have a threesome a while back. im not sure if it was just a question to see what kind of guy i was or if she was serious? i dont really think she's into girls but i just have that ...

I know I shouldn't have cheated, so how can I have a future with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Im currently engaged to my beautiful fiance, who i have been with for a year now... We started dating in march 2009. It started out as a physical relationship for like the first month, and eventually the emotions got deeper. But at the same time i ...

If I pretend this doesn't bother me will I get her back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Well, The day before my gf was talking about cuddling with me and then yesterday she didn't want to do anything with me, not even talk. I asked her why she didn't want to talk, she said because she was talking to her friends. I was wondering why she ...

We started dating too soon after she broke up with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - I've dated a girl who is still getting over difficult relationship. Shes been with someone for a year and both were expected to get married, but out of the blue, he left her and that was it. 3 months later, we started going out. It went well, but ...

Should I cancel this trip so he realizes I'm serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I just can't believe the incident that occured with me and my boyfriend. I went to meet him because he was waiting for his daughter to get dropped off by her mother..so, while I'm in the car with him and his daughter he ask's his ex if she needs a ...

Should I be honest with my b/f about what's going on with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - hi everyone, so ill be 16 in 15 days and the guy im dating is 19. he super sweet and tells me im amazing and beautiful and he could never ask for more. i like him a lot.. but heres the problem. my ex that i dated for 7 months and was crazy in love ...

Should I contact my ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - Should I contact my ex girl friend? i was with her fo a year it was long distance and we were both dealing with some stuff at the time. I had a prolem with addiction that she didnt know aout and as she was dealing with her own stuff at the tim...

How should I behave when I see him even although he's broken up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of three months just broke up with me last night saying that I should stay on my own, that I am giving him lots of trouble, I don't know what to do right now. I am not even sure that I want him back into my life but this is not my ...

Should I continue to ignore him or answer his call to say my goodbye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - My ex is the type who gets hot or cold with me. Sometimes he is nice, sometimes he mistreats me. I won't mention how the mistreatment happens but it is worse enough for me to rethink my post romantic relationship with him which I thought was a good ...

I miss my ex, but am dating his brother. I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - Ok well my ex boyfriend who is 17 and i broke up about 5 or 6 months ago and a week later after he broke up with me I started going out with his brother....his younger brother who is 14 and I am 16..the reason why I started going out with him I ...

Old love still stirring....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 4 years...we have one child and another one on the way. We dates for a long time before we got married. Before I met him I knew another man. It was love at first sight for me. We never dated because it was never ...

He is friends with his ex and says he feels like a father to her daughters, .... but shouldn't this be a closed chapter in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. Before that he was in a long relationship(9years)with a woman who has got 2 daughters (16and 19years old);they have never been married, lived together just for a wee while as children were driving ...