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writes:Hey everyone,So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things that you totally DO NOT miss about your ex. Hopefully it will help you to get some of those things out and will help others to be able to read and those things and relate to them. So I'll go first: 5 (of the many) things I do not miss about my ex:1. I will not miss how you spoke disrespectfully of other women.2. I will not miss feeling like you were embaressed to be seen with me.3. I will not miss the way you would always get mad first, and apologise later.4. I will not miss your immaturity, and when you called me immature.5. I will not miss the way you tried to buy friendships and relationships with money.I hope to read some of yours!!!
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reader, cnith +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Hmmm.... I'm with the Myau that says bitching will get you nowhere. Just accept it wasn't meant to be and move on...
However, misery does love company...
Now me, I have a question... if the guys did all these things to you, WHY THE HELL did you stay with them??
Like lying and cheating... more than once....? How in the world did you get to 'more than once' ? was the first one a trial run or something? You girls are weird...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I like the fact that things I had issues with are the exact same things that everyone else has issues with. 1. I don't miss how you would fart all the freaken time. I mean, it wasn't the ideal alarm clock, dinner bell, or after sex cuddle buddy commencement buzzer. 2. I don't miss how you'd say how a 'bad boyfriend' would do something in order to compare how saintly you were. I mean, how about comparing what you're doing to a 'good boyfriend'? I guess because it wouldn't be up to par. 3. I don't miss how you lied to me and spent the night at other girls' houses. Twice. And then texted those girls to talk about me behind my back. 4. I don't miss your pornography choices. They were creepy and illegal. :) 5. I finally don't miss the fact that you'd only spend time with me or talk to me on the phone when it was convenient for you (which was twice to three times a week). And during those times, you canceled on several occasions. Your immaturity drove me insane, and your money spending to make me 'happy' was an easy way out. And in spite of everything, I think I still miss him a little, even if I was the one who broke off the relationship. Bah. Time to start fresh and experience the world!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 5 thinks I don't miss about my ex:
1) I don't miss the way you tried to control my life.
2) I don't miss the way you referred to your ex girlfriends as psychos, just because you hurt them.
3) I don't miss your abstract bad moods that came out of nowhere, and that you never explained.
4)I don't miss your farting.
5) I don't miss the way you cheated on me with women from the internet, and then came crawling back when it didn't work out.
Phew!!! I feel better already!!! Fantastic thread!!
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reader, tru_2_oja +, writes (31 March 2010):
i don't miss you not involving in my children's events. i don't miss your emotionles expressions when i try to be funny. when im actually happy. or so love. . i don't miss being the baseness i felt. i don't miss how t made of feel lonely even while being with you. NOW I JUST NEED TO LEAVE YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): 1. I don't miss your lying and cheating. 2. I don't miss your narcissism. 3. I don't miss trying to please you and you could never be pleased. 4. I don't miss the clutter and mess you left everywhere. 5. I don't miss your selfishness and neglect and the way you could make me feel bad about being me. 6. Did I say I don't miss your lying and cheating?!
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reader, Myau  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Rather than going on about you past relationship, why not just accept that it wasnt ment to be and go find someone better?
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reader, Hard_decision  +, writes (30 March 2010):
1. I do not miss the way you were moody towards me 90% of the time
2. I do not miss finding hurtful messages/photos on your phone to and from other girls
3. I do not miss the lies you told me
4. I do not miss having to pay for your bills
5. I do not miss you cheating on me..
Wow great thread - thanks! I guess this actually helps because it opens my eyes as to what I DONT miss about him rather then what I do, and the "i dont miss" certainly outweigh the things i do miss..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Well good thing u broke up with him! First get him off your mind! Then wat for a while. like for 3 days. Hang out with boys for 2 days. Then find a cute boy. NOT YOUR EX! lol. Make him like u. Be yourself. Ask him out or he might even ask u out :). Well that works for me so good luke if u follow me! bye for now. If u got any more questions about boys come to me thx bye!
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 I never had a real relation with a girl, honestly I never had a girlfriend .... but I have had women leaching over me, and I found a song on youtube that made a lot of sense to me ... hope you like it ... it's from "the fray - heartless" ... I always wished I had a girlfriend but I still find myself stuck in the middle of nowhere :(
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