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writes:I've dated a girl who is still getting over difficult relationship. Shes been with someone for a year and both were expected to get married, but out of the blue, he left her and that was it. 3 months later, we started going out. It went well, but we broke up a week later because she was not ready to date on account of the troubles with her ex, though she admitted she liked me a lot. I still like her, and I want the relationship to happen, but i'm having trouble what to do.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Glad that you searched online for all those info's on 'rebound relationships .'I found them really helpful and insightful, more than what we can tell you here.
I hope you will pick up those tips from those experienced writers and learned a thing or two.
If you love her and treat her right,you have nothing to worry . Every thing is fated.That's what I believed.
If she is meant to be yours, she will be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am liking the answers so far. Laura1318, i am currently looking up facts about rebound relationships and I believe you helped me out greatly. I do have to understand that she may not be the one for me, but we had excellent chemistry during those weeks and we were extremely similar in a lot of ways, but we both went too fast and I realize that now.
So right now, I think I am going to give her more space and let her know if she wants to talk she can let me know. She did mention that if she's ready to go back out, she wanted to try again, so there's still hope.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 March 2010):
Yours is a rebound relationship and you need to take things slowly.
You need to Google about 'rebound relationships' for more tips on how to make it a success. There are a lot of materials online which discuss this problem.
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reader, Brutus  +, writes (28 March 2010):
ok dude atleast shes got a sound reason to be upset a year is a decent amount of time to get upset about, just hang out with her, relax have a good time with her and everything will work itself out. Beleave me your lucky Ive had to deal with woman who got so upset after dating a guy for a week they basicly went insane so count your blessings and try what i surjested.
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reader, lerokiya  +, writes (28 March 2010):
the woman is still to wrapped up in her ex that you don't really stand a chance, no matter who great you are or how great you treated her. she'll be always thinking of her ex and no matter how well you've treated her, she's probably already told her man that she was using you. many women are like that, cold and calculated.
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reader, betrayed03 +, writes (28 March 2010):
Well first 3 months isn't enough time to get over someone. Especially one whom you were gonna get married to. What she needs is time to herself to figure out what she wants to do. And also to heal.
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