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writes:my boyfriend and i have been in an on and off relationship for a year. i gave up everything for him. i know money doesnt buy happiness but i gave up my ex boyfriend who was in the army and who was doing everything for me, for him. someone who didnt have nothing and still doesnt have anything going for himself. we just broke up recently because he said i fuss too much. i dont fuss i just try to build our communication up in our relationship because we dont talk about nothing at all. but yeah he broke up with me because of that. i wasnt fussing at all i was just talking to him and letting him know how i feel about him and our relatioship and all he do is ignore me. sometimes i find myself chasin after him and trying to make him come back. its like the only time i hear him say he loves me the most is when we're having sex. he still kind of tells me sometimes but i hear it when we're having sex. i still love him and im very much in love with him. he tells me he still is in love with me and he loves/misses me but he doesnt want to be with me right now. i dont know what to do. when i see on his facebook where he started back communicating with his exes that hurts because i feel like he still had feelings for them. i cry every night. i skip meals. i lost a lot of my weight. i just recently had a 2nd miscarriage. ppl tells me to leave him alone because he's not worth it but i love him so much and i cant let go. but sometimes i feel like im trying to hold onto someone who isnt meant to be held on to. he ignores my texts and phone calls. i dont know what to do. can anyone please give me some advice???
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reader, cherelle  +, writes (30 March 2010):
you will go over and over and over and over everything he says/does in ur head until u come up with all sorts!!!, but it will do u no good....just leave him be, give him space and if its meant to be...he will come back to you.....if not then u have escaped something that wasnt meant to be and saved urself alot of time and energy....just remember it wont be easy tho.... Ul cry, shout, want to hurt him, cry more...cry...oh and cry but u have to stay strong...no messages on facebook, no calls, text messages.. Im going through it right now myself... Hurts.. Stay strong petal,x
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reader, mrslubbz +, writes (28 March 2010):
maybe you just need to give him some space and time...when we ask for things,because we think that is what we need isnt always the best thing..sometimes its best to leave well enough alone..i know that you are hurt, I have been there as well but sometimes the best thing is to just let go. if its meant he will come back...with that being said too maybe it best that he leave and open the door for a better man.
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