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writes:ok so as the title says, my ex girl friend asked me if i would ever have a threesome a while back. im not sure if it was just a question to see what kind of guy i was or if she was serious? i dont really think she's into girls but i just have that feeling that she might be, she might just feel ashamed to admit that she would try being with a girl.so one of my friends whos a girl said she would love to have a threesome with both of us, i told my ex girl friend what my friend said this and she slighty thought about it as in "hmmm" in a jokingly manner but then said "no way!" i can never do that blah blah. so the bottom line i would love for her to see her with another female i think that would be really hot,i really care for her so its more than just sex, its something that i want to deeply share with her. any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah it seemed like she was just testing me, maybe i mean who really knows? shes really shy about her body. she comments on certains how hot they are etc, i just always had that feeling that she was into girls just really shy and feeling guilty to admit it.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 How do you know she wanted the threesome to be with another girl? She might have wanted you and another guy to be involved!
There are 2 things here;
1. She is your ex - why do you care? You are no longer in a relationship so something she said to you a while back makes absolutely no difference, it is completely irrelevant so just get over it and move on.
2. Girls often ask their boyfriends and male friends if they would consider a threesome. It is a typical girl thing to do - we like to test our guys to see how they feel about us and whether they are bored with the sex life in the relationship, hence why they would want to spice things up by bringing in another person. I know if I had asked my boyfriend this question and he had said he would be interested - it would really upset me and I would think he feels there is something missing in our sex life. If our sex life was not exciting enough to warrant a third person getting involved then I would really be hurt that he feels that way.
So I really doubt she is into girls, this is just some silly fantasy in your head. Most men like this idea of a threesome with 2 girls, this generally comes from watching too much lesbian and threesome porn. Real life is not like that I'm afraid! Normally the only girls that are willing to have a threesome with another girl are one of 3 options:
1. Very sexually liberated and will do pretty much anything in the bedroom
2. Trying to please their boyfriend - they do not want to do it but know their boyfriend does want it so they feel they have to do this to keep their boyfriends
3. A lesbian
Your ex-girlfriend doesnt sound like any of these so I think you need to let go of your little fantasy and move on, she isnt even your girlfriend so the chances of her wanting to do this with you are pretty slim!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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