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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I dated this guy for almost two years and we had a rough patch and broke up. During this time i became really close with a guy from work. Now my ex wants to get back together with me and I dont know who i should be with. Im seeing both of them but cant do it any longer. I am going to my senior prom with my ex, he was my first true love and i still love him so much and dont want to hurt him. However the new guy is so sweet and I'm starting to get really strong feelings for him too. I dont want to loose either of them. However my ex thinks he is the only guy in my life. Part of me wants to go back with my ex but I dont want the only reason I go back with him be because he is what I am comfortable with and used to. I also dont want the new guy to be just a rebound. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): It's hard, but from what you wrote, it appears as though you are more into your ex than you current bf. If you and your ex broke up b/c he was a cheater and you go back to him, you risk the chance of getting hurt by him AGAIN, or maybe he is a changed young man and you guys will ride off into the sunset. If you stay with the new guy, from what you have written, you might just live happily ever after or if you go back to your ex, you will break his heart. So...think long and hard. Besides, you are in high school and your mind should be on other things...don't get boggled down with relationship stuff and worries to soon--you will have enough of all that drama when you are older and believe me you are NOT missing out on anything. Mending a broken heart is HARD ASS WORK and sometimes ppl never ever recover from it. To this date, getting over someone I was in love with was one of the most horrible feelings I have ever felt in my entire life....so....just be wise and if there are adults that you trust in your life, ask them to give you advice as well.
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