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anonymous
writes:My ex is the type who gets hot or cold with me. Sometimes he is nice, sometimes he mistreats me. I won't mention how the mistreatment happens but it is worse enough for me to rethink my post romantic relationship with him which I thought was a good idea before.Previously, I have tried to become friends with him because he wanted us to. It's like he still don't want to totally lose me in his life. We don't meet in person, just talk over the phone about hrice a month.So a month ago, he did something again that has finally made me realize I should stop keeping in touch with him. He said something bad about me to another girl, maybe to make himself look good. Anyway, the girl told me about it. From then on, I never picked up his calls or replied to his text. He's been ringing me every week.But now, I feel guilty of just leaving that way. Somehow, I feel it is not good to just leave him hanging like that. I should atleast say goodbye properly and not just suddenly stop responding. What do you guys think? Is it best to continue what I am doing now or just in case he calls again, should I pick it up and tell him goodbye? I don't know which one is better. Opinions pls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): hi, my sister was in the same situation a few months ago, if he is being hot and cold with you anyway then you shouldnt feel guilty that youre not answering his calls/texts because he would just be doing the same to you if he was in your situation. i think you need continue to ignore him, i know it will seem hard at first but you will eventually know it is the right descision, at least then you will no if he is decent if he hangs around!
good luck & much love
lucyx
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