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Dumped, badly, and now worried about heartbreak again!

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Question - (29 March 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so here's the deal. I have just got out of a serious relationship well lets just say the dirt bag left me on the day of my grandma's funeral harsh huh ! there was no warning or anything he just said that morning as I was getting ready to leave, I love you and want to marry you next month and kissed me then I never saw him agian I come back home and he's gone with a note saying he just couldn't do it sorry and he moved out of state nice huh. Well anyways that was 2 months ago still pretty fresh and I have been very depressed for a month i didn't even leave the house i just sat around and cried ! pathetic huh. But I decieted I was going to stop feeling sorry for myself and live my life agian.

So I starting hanging out with friends agian and I met this guy who is really funny and we started hanging out as friends but he just told me he really likes me. I didn't know what to say i'm on the rebound its just too soon I told him and I said we would just have to be firends for now I needed time. So he said ok but still calls me all the time and hints he likes me.

Then yesterday he kissed me and I well lets just say i didn't stop him but I should have all we did was kiss but I don't know what to do. another thing tells me that maybe he can since my weekness right now. What do you think is he thinking yeah lonely girl low confidance gonna score? or do you think this guy really likes me i'm confused ethier the guy likes me or he really wants in my pants cause he acts so nice to me all the time he ask me what i did that day when he calls and wants to know every detail lol anyways do you think this is too soon after a break up ?

I mean I don't want another heart ache agian I just am confused I do like the guy he is extremly actractive but I'm not over my ex plus this guy has a baby with his ex thats 6 months old. Help me out am I setting myself up for disaster agian ? any advice would help thanks :)

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