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*abygirl99
writes:my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and from what I c they are very serious she lives there from what I see everyday. I don't no why but it seems like he don't want me to even say her name he gets upset and it's nothing negative ! She seems to be a nice girl my son likes her so that's great. I work at night and he watches him for me so this 1 night he "claim" he couldn't do it so I said can I ask her ? He gets upset hanging up in my face ? I don't get it ? She lives there why is he fronting to hiself ? I'm not upset his with her she have to deal with him not me but I no she watches him just as well be under him she lives there ! So why he don't want her to have a relationship with her ? He never even introduce us !
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reader, babygirl99 +, writes (1 April 2010):
babygirl99 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionall the answers was ver , very true . I ran into her at a nail shop and I didn't no it was her until she spoke to my son. She was with a friend and she was nice we spoke . Sense than I would make it my biz to speak to her when I would see her. He doesn't like it . But Karma is a bitch and what goes around always have to come back ! Hopefully she is goin to get to no the real man she is dealing with. A man who hides so many serects !
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 March 2010):
It could be 2 reasons.
1 - He just doens't want you to know her.
2 - He is playing both you and her.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 March 2010):
 If she is in your child's life I think it would be smart to meet her. Obviously he doesn't want you two to met because who knows what's he's been telling her about you and goodness knows what you could tell her about him...
He seems a little paranoid there....
However, I don't think you should consider his GF as your emergency babysitter UNLESS she has offered.
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reader, Agony Auntie Smiles +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Wilma Proops - a comedy Agony Aunt who says "many a true word spoken in jest" once answered a question like this. She was blunt so I'll be blunt too.
Your son's father hasn't introduced you to his new girlfriend for one of several reasons and if you are honest with yourself and about this man you will know which of them applies to you:
1) He is embarrassed because his new girlfriend is a minger
2) He is embarrassed because you are a minger
3) He is worried that you and his new girlfriend will not like each other and argue
4) He has told her lies about you and doesn't want her to find out the truth
5) He has told her lies about himself and doesn't want her to find out the truth
6) He is an Aquarius man
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Personally, i'd say i wouldn't want my son hanging around anyone i haven't met. But maybe he's worried you'll say something via hinting at recent-ish relations with him etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): because he wants to do you both at the same time, and if you don't talk, you wont be able to tell each other that you both are doing the same dude. he is trying to keep you both in the dark...
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