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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I just can't seem to get over him - how can I be strong about this break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Am finding it really hard to get over my bf...we've been 2gether since Febr. and we've been seeing each others everyday untill earlier this month when he gradually stoped calling or caring...until I ended things (they were already over though) but I ...

My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him...

She broke it off - now she wants to move in together as friends! Is it a bad idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been in a brief relationship with a wonderful woman who was my friend beforehand. She has now ended it and wants to go back to being friends. She wants us to move in together as housemates as neither of us have our own house and rent ...

We are married to other people, loved before, but I STILL love him, what am I to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Ok well here goes, I broke up with my ex 6 years ago and have remained close,close friends ever since and have been able to tell each other anything. We have both got married to toher people but still I can't get the fact that I love him out my ...

I keep thinking about my ex, but I DO want to be with my new bf, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - hello, I am really struggling to get over my ex. I have a new boyfriend who is lovely, and have been with him for 4 months now, yet I still find myself feeling so low and crying about the loss of my ex. My ex was the first person i have love...

What should I say to my ex (23 years ago!) who wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - hi there please could you help me my ex wants me back. i have been with my husband for nearly 17 yrs. my ex and i parted 23 yrs ago.i just want to be friends nothing more but he dont what should i do?...

He left her before he knew she was pregnant, now he's with me and she's just had the baby - I feel excluded!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend just had his first child with his ex-girlfriend. We have been dating for almost 7 months and he had left her before she found out she was pregnant. Prior to the baby, we had intentions on getting married, buying a house and starting a ...

I cheated, he forgave me, then believed a rumour we were having an affair so he dumped me! I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 years 2 years ago and he found out, he got really angry but he said he would forgive me, stupidly i started talking to the guy i cheated with and we became friends, my boyfriend found out and we fought constantly about ...

His ex says she pregnant w/ his baby, but he says that's impossible! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend said he received a text message from his ex-girlfriend saying that she is pregnant and its his child. We have been together for 2 years now. He has cheated on me in the past with her but her swears that the last time he was with her ...

She changed for the worse and we seperated. But I still love her! How can I forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone, I will appreciate your time and you advice on this please: I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I ke...

He still seems to have feelings for his ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now, and things have been great. We are so compatible and have connected so well. But I just get this feeling that he still has something for his ex. They were together for about 2years, and broke ...

He left me b/c he said he was bi, then he came back! I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - here is a gay related question. I was in a commited gay relationship for a few years long distance, now my partner several months back ended it saying that his feelings changed and that he thinks he is bi. Several months later while pic...

He broke up with me then shut out everyone in his life. It hurts me to see him like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - What are reasons for guys to broke a perfect relationship up if there was no cheating involed? If he was so happy with me then why would he broke it off? We always got along there was no fighting or anything. I was the perfect girlfriend.........

I'm disgusted my gf dated a player! How can I trust her after he showed up in town again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and when we started going out it was so perfect. But then her ex showed up completely out of the blue from 80 miles away. I got an awkward phone call telling me that she was meeting someone to tell ...

My fella's ex wants him to give her money to buy their grown-up children Christmas presents! Thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - hi i'll make this short. my fellas daughter has just told him that her mother wants him to send over money to her for xmas cus she cant afford to get her children stuff. we will be buying them big pressies anyway. but the money we send over will buy ...

We flirt..have sex occasionally..we talk on the phone for hours. Is this a normal friendship between ex lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Don't know what the status between me and my ex is! Are we just friends? We know each other inside out because of our long-term relationship, we do flirt a lot and occasionally end up doing sexual stuff, but we don't take anything we do very ...

My ex keeps the rose gave me for our first month anniversary on his dresser - why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship. Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty...

My ex is dating a coworker when she said she doesn't want me to date anyone from work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I and my ex mutually decided to split after 18 months in march, but we were still intimate up until the end of august. it was still like we were together we called each other more than 4 times a day every day and met up went out all the time she was ...

I exposed everything and more about my ex-husband to his new gf! Will they break up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - hi i was on to u all before about my husband leving me for a girl 15 years younger than him.well i think i done a foolish thing yesterday . i was on the phone to him knowing he was down the country with her house hunting .oh yes thay got a house and ...

Ex fiancee left me for a friend and both of them still play with my emotions. Why are they doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, My ex fiancee recently split from me after almost 5 years and jumped straight into a new sexual relationship with someone i thought was a friend. It hurt but im moving on however they feel the need to play mind games and toy with my ...

We think his ex is faking that she has cancer! I fear he's trapped into that relationship out of guilt - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6559 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Someone I know is being emotionally blackmailed online. He is split up with his wife and lives alone now. She is married, lives in the USA and he is in the UK. She says she has cancer and 'just wants to be friends' with him but to be honest w...

My ex bf broke it off but is mad/jealous when I am hanging around other guys! What's up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He broke up with me and last night my friends and I went up to a popular bar. I went w/my best friend and her boyfriend(which is the ex's best friend) and my older sister and her friends, and we played pool for ...

I have a great bf, but should I go back to my ex for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I split up with my husband of 2 years, 2 years ago. I met another man who I had dated previously before i got married. we were and always had been in love so it seemed natural to continue. My problem is that I miss my husband (we have a young ...

My girlfriend talks about her ex's almost daily, I'm not sure it's completely over!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Hi there, My girlfriend and I have had a wonderful steady relationship for 9 months now. I have noticed on and off that she talks about her ex-boyfriends/sex partners quite frequently (almost daily). To be honest it is starting to bother me. Sh...

My ex bf is a player..I want him back so do I wait until he changes or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I don't know what I want from this guy! We've been on and off for a year. We've been bf and gf, sex buddies and friends and none of them seem to work. The relationship was the best, but when things got too hard it fell apart as neither of us were ...

It was supposed to no strings sex but--I've let myself become attached and now-he dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi i need some advice pls. i was with my ex for nearly 3 years and we split up about 4 months ago. when we were together we had our ups and downs split up but always got back together. latley hes been in contact sayin our sex was amazing and we ...

I need to reject my ex bf's advances? How do I overcome all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6563 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need to learn self-control when it comes to my ex, as he certainly won't. It seems all he wants to be is friends with me, then he'll get with me as soon as he's single because he thinks I'm a great shag. I have some feelings for him still but I ...

Is this guy playing me for a fool or...does he really want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf about 9 months ago. even after all this time, it still hurts as if it were yesterday. We have had alot of ups and downs since our break-up, things that have made the situation even worse at times. There are times when we can ...

I have chosen to 'avoid' my ex bf and his new gf..friends tell I am behaving rudely! Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I was with my my ex for about ten years. When we broke up he moved on to someone else really quickly. Although I was really hurt I have wanted nothing to do with him since the breakup. I felt that because he replaced me so fast I wanted him out of ...

A new baby and confusion and hurt feelings over this child's 'surname". Help me deal with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend had a divorce 2 1/2 yrs ago. His wife cheated on him and left him to live with the new guy. My boyfriend and his ex-wife has a 6 yrs old daughter. The ex-wife was never re-married, just living with that guy and the daughter. Recent...

I think he's spending way too much times at his ex's place...they both seem to think I have a problem because of this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6563 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I live with my partner who I met 5 years ago and we have a young son. My partner has a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship who I accept and love and comes to stay every other weekend and in school hols. We have a good relation...

His ex left him a message-saying they should now talk as she feels ready to discuss things. Discuss what? Shoud I be worried and doubtful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6563 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Hi all, Well could do with a bit of help myself to-day. Its mine and my b/friends first christmas this year. Neither of us like christmas, but he has kids with his ex, who may want him there. As his ex is still clinging on for dear life, i dont wa...

We're from two different worlds, is it worth another go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - After several years of dating the player type of man, and getting severely hurt...I finally started dating someone who was serious about me. However, we are from different cultures, and I can't help but feel he is less of a person than I (we are t...

Should I meet with my ex again even though she is now married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - I've just recently met up with an ex of mine a short time ago. It's been awhile since we were together and i still have feelings for her. The problem is that she is married with 2 children. She wants to meet up again in the near future. I had a ...

His ex has made our life hellish...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years now and we live together. He broke up with his ex 7 years ago who he has two children with and I have one from a previous relationship. My partner and his ex have been constantly arguing week in week out, on ...

I dont think she's over her ex, should I leave until she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend can't get over her ex. She broke up with him two years ago because he cheated. Recently, she e-mailed him saying she thinks about him at least once a day and how she still misses him. She also tells him how lucky his new girlfriend is ...

He left me for a life 'on the road' and I need help moving on (long post)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - My name is Paula and I have just been left by my lover and partner, Joe. I am a 40 year old woman. Joe is 45 and divorced this past January. this is long, sorry but pls read it. i want your input. Joe and I met online in May. We fell hard...

Can I get my ex back after breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hi I'm a teenager that recently broke up with my boyfriend that I been with for almost two months. I want him back. What should I do?...

Are my ex and I going to be together again? Or am I kidding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6558 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Well this is sort of a follow up for my last question. I saw my on/off bf this weekend, we had a lovely time and he told me he was unsure that we did the right thing to "cool things off". I didn't question him any further... but now I'm all ...

My bf and I have a baby but we fight and I'm not happy...do I leave and move in with my ex? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - I have a baby with my current boyfriend and have been together for 4 years... If feels likes we are going in a circle ( we are happy, then we fight, then we dont talk etc.) I am not happy, it feels too little too late... but there is an ex that ...

Is it possible to remain friends after love is lost?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Im having trouble letting go of my ex she keeps calling me. no matter how often I tell her I am not coming back she often finds away to call me. especially on weekends. She makes no sense. when I was with her I warned her about her losing me. She ...

Should I surprise my ex with concert tickets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - Would it be too much to surprise my ex with concert tickets for Christmas? We broke up a while back and she was dating someone else for a while. They broke up, but I have reason to believe that she still has a lot of feelings for him. However, I ...

My friends ex really want to be with me and won't stop trying even though I told him I don't want to hurt my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - One of my friends ex boyfriends has asked if I would like to start seeing him. She is very upset about the split still and seeing him would be very hurtful to her. I would also be likely to lose her as a friend and in likelihood another two friends ...

I have to get over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6567 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - I recently just broke up with my boyfriend, it was a whole mess and he cheated on me, and i gave my friend head when i was drunk and it was this whole saga. He ended it with me on saturday and im completely lost, we were together for a year but ...

I didn't give my GF enough attention and I realise my mistake and I just want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - about 14 months ago i split up with my 1st girlfriend who i was with for 2 years. I am 19 and i still feel like she is the only person i can love, i havent seen her since because it was a long distance relationship so i have given it space and time, ...

He still sees his ex and I found a note and text messages saying how much she stills loves him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Hiya Basically I have been going out with my boyfriend since August 2005. I was in his room one evening, when he was downstairs, and I knocked his wallet off his desk. This note fell out, and it was from this other girl that he went out with be...

Will his ex cause us problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6567 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - Theres a guy that im with who i am mad about. However his ex is apparantly very jealous and even 2 months on we r not together if n e 1 was to ask. Just recently his ex has been in contact with him saying that he knows, and now this guy says he ...

I want to try again with my ex bf but now...my parents despise him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and me were going to move in together.My parents supported me in my decision.I got cold feet regarding the situation and the relationship and ended everything. I still love him and he loves me.I wnat to try again the only problem is my ...

Do I continue communicating with the man that I love even though... he's married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - should i continue communicating with the man that i love, even though he is married? We met before his engagemnet, and liked each other. He lives in India -a country where there are immense social pressures, and was unable to stop his wedding t...

My ex is still in my life... How can I move on with peace of mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - i have been to this web site a few times in the past to deal with my issues and it has helped me a lot. i am a 25 male who got dumped 4 months ago. i went out with her for almost 2 years and it was great. one day she decides that she wants to be ...